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Old 01-02-2015, 01:24 AM
 
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No you met a wussy man.Find a better lady.
i agree, if a guy is really interested in you, then he will wait until you are ready.
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Old 01-02-2015, 02:02 AM
 
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buzzkill

noone is trying to sit there and listen to a person ramble on about virginity, beliefs and all that other uninteresting stuff

truth be told, the dude was not into you

you should be ok with it...no need for either of you to waste each others time

since when has a man ever gotten excited by a woman basically telling them that they arent gonna get any?

women please stop making this error and incorporate some logic, the virginity card doesnt work

only bring up your virginity when you are ready and willing so that the guy doesnt go in blind and so he knows what to expect from you
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Old 01-02-2015, 03:46 AM
 
Location: Fuquay Varina
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At 28 and being a virgin, I would have run away from you as well lol
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Old 01-02-2015, 04:09 AM
 
Location: USA
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Whoa SVTLightning, your comment above is indeed very shallow.

I was a virgin till age 29, and my BF didn't mind, he didn't run.

Ms. OP, don't worried about being 28 and still a virgin. Find the right guy first, you don't want to have any regrets later just in case he is the wrong guy.
Be safe than sorry OP because the one paying for the consequences is you, yourself.
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Old 01-02-2015, 12:43 PM
 
Location: Here
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...each has their own right to one. None more idealistic or quirky than the other, whether you're a Teen or an Adult. ....
Some of us want our first time to be with the special one we love long term in marriage and are not interested in the least with a fast and cheap piece of tail that we’ll never see again, and wouldn't want to see, after 2 or 3 "sessions". Those of us that abstain should never be made to feel badly about it or pressured into “putting out” either just to temporarily satiate the sexual compulsions of those with whom virginity is valueless and has no meaning.
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Old 01-02-2015, 12:46 PM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Some of us want our first time to be with the special one we love long term in marriage and are not interested in the least with a fast and cheap piece of tail that we’ll never see again, and wouldn't want to see, after 2 or 3 "sessions".

Amazingly, there is a lot of room in between these two extremes.
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Old 01-02-2015, 12:50 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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I wouldn't date a guy that wanted to wait until marriage to have sex.
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Old 01-02-2015, 12:54 PM
 
Location: Centro Tejas
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I still don't get the whole idea of waiting to have sex after marriage...
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Old 01-02-2015, 12:56 PM
 
Location: Here
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I wouldn't date a guy that wanted to wait until marriage to have sex.
If we were both in love with each other and both of us wanted to eventually get married I wouldn’t wait to have sex either. Love is the key component and without it the sex is meaningless, at least for me. Obviously everybody has differences of opinion on this subject.
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Old 01-02-2015, 12:58 PM
 
Location: The Triad
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My parents think that since I told the guy I have been dating for 1 month, my views on sex
which is to wait until marriage, that, that's what caused him to stop talking to me
are you 16 or 26?

If 26... then understand that YOU are the outlier.
Fix that ...or accept it and date from within the limited pool of outliers.
Your choice.
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