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Dated a girl 3.5 months. Things got serious fast and then faded. It's been about two months since we broke up. She took all pictures of us down from Facebook. I ended up unfriending her last week. We are not in touch. No fights or anything during break-up - it was civil. Looked at her match.com profile the other day. She added a fifth photo, and it is a picture of her mid golf swing I took of her and made look nicer with instagram and texted her during a weekend vacation I took her on in the mountains.
Would anyone else be annoyed by this? Although probably trivial, I feel like it is pretty rude. There's obviously more to the story. But I kind of want to let her know I saw it and think it is rude. She broke up with me, deleted any picture of me from facebook, and is now using a picture I took of her from a vacation I took her on to attract other men. Doesn't seem right to me.
I'm sensing she felt a bit of animosity towards you, hence the break-up, hence the photo posting.
I always assume that the dating profile photos I see of men having a good time were taking by their previous girlfriends. Who else would be around to take them?
Dated a girl 3.5 months. Things got serious fast and then faded. It's been about two months since we broke up. She took all pictures of us down from Facebook. I ended up unfriending her last week. We are not in touch. No fights or anything during break-up - it was civil. Looked at her match.com profile the other day. She added a fifth photo, and it is a picture of her mid golf swing I took of her and made look nicer with instagram and texted her during a weekend vacation I took her on in the mountains.
Would anyone else be annoyed by this? Although probably trivial, I feel like it is pretty rude. There's obviously more to the story. But I kind of want to let her know I saw it and think it is rude. She broke up with me, deleted any picture of me from facebook, and is now using a picture I took of her from a vacation I took her on to attract other men. Doesn't seem right to me.
Wow. Are you even serious? Who cares where the picture came from? Get over it.
I can see why OP feels hurt. The picture was sentimental OP felt was a sacred momento of the relationship. Sorta like when couples divorce and fight over trivial matters about the whats and whereabouts on how to parent their children in separate homes. They get into these back and forth battles due to their own resentment. And, both are guilty.
I can see why OP feels hurt. The picture was sentimental OP felt was a sacred momento of the relationship. Sorta like when couples divorce and fight over trivial matters about the whats and whereabouts on how to parent their children in separate homes. They get into these back and forth battles due to their own resentment. And, both are guilty.
He said he wasn't into her. There's no sentimental attachment. The photograph certainly does not make any feelings resurface.
In his view point, his is annoyed because the picture made his ex "look good". It's his ego speaking, not his feelings as he didn't have any to begin with.
The photograph is not the problem.
If only he could take a step back and reflect on what truly annoys him, we wouldn't be having this silly convo.
Last edited by LostinPhilly; 01-03-2015 at 09:35 AM..
He said he wasn't into her. There's no sentimental attachment. The photograph certainly does not make any feelings resurface.
In his view point, his is annoyed because the picture made his ex "look good". It's his ego speaking, not his feelings as he didn't have any to begin with. The photograph is not the problem.
If only he could take a step back and reflect on what truly annoys him, we wouldn't be having this silly convo.
Just make sure you don't take nice pictures for the next girl
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