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Would anyone else be annoyed by this? Although probably trivial, I feel like it is pretty rude. There's obviously more to the story. But I kind of want to let her know I saw it and think it is rude. She broke up with me, deleted any picture of me from facebook, and is now using a picture I took of her from a vacation I took her on to attract other men. Doesn't seem right to me.
I get what you're sayin and why you would be bothered by it. It's a pic you took while dating so it has some sort of meaning. Even though she's using it to get other guys, in the end it's a picture of just her so she (nor I) see no problem in using it for whatever.
I get what you're sayin and why you would be bothered by it. It's a pic you took while dating so it has some sort of meaning. Even though she's using it to get other guys, in the end it's a picture of just her so she (nor I) see no problem in using it for whatever.
It isn't the picture he's upset about. He's torqued because she broke up with him and his ego hasn't recovered. They didn't even date for 4 months yet he has such anger that he's stalking her dating profile and is looking for ways to lash out to get back at her for dumping him.
It isn't the picture he's upset about. He's torqued because she broke up with him and his ego hasn't recovered. They didn't even date for 4 months yet he has such anger that he's stalking her dating profile and is looking for ways to lash out to get back at her for dumping him.
Plus, he says he didn't really like her.
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actually, i can see how this can be a little bit of a kick in the gut. i broke up with my boyfriend over a year ago. we both ended up in online dating in the months that followed the break up. i saw his profile and he used a few pictures that i took of him in his profile. places that we went together, things that we did together. i admit it did sting a little to see those pictures being used to attract other women. so i do understand what you are saying and how you are feeling. he doesn't normally take very good pictures and i am an amateur photographer, i think i am pretty good , and he did look good in those pictures. so yeah...again i understand. BUT! you need to let it go. do not say anything to her. just let it go. it will do no good to mention it to her. after a while it won't matter to you any more. trust me. i couldn't care less anymore if he uses every single picture that i ever took of him to attract another woman. they can have him.
oh...i just read the rest of the thread. i guess i spoke too soon? anyway, in a normal circumstance i can see how it would sting to see the picture being used. i need to go back and read more about the OP i guess.
now that i have gone and read this whole thread, not just skimmed through, and also went and poked around at some of your other threads. i am not sure why you are still stuck on this woman. i think it must be what others have pointed out, ego. she broke up with you and that hurt a lot and you are having a hard time letting it end like that. it seems to me that if you two were to get back together, you would probably then eventually break up with her so that it would feel better for you to end in that way, instead of her being the one to leave you. let this one go. learn from the short relationship that you had and move on. there is someone out there for you. maybe you need to relax a little and just concentrate on work and friends and family. you seem very driven to find "someone". relax! enjoy life! she will come!
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