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I have bran new girlfriend. She has great personality, priceless sense of humor and everything else like that I can dream of. I love to be with her and do things together. Her face is to die for and she seems to have good body also when she is dressed. But yesterday we were first time together in bed. I was disappointed how untoned her body is. I knew that she is not a fitness queen and wasn’t expecting for six-pack. But I didn’t expect that complete softness on her belly and everywhere else on her body and these dimples on her thighs also. She literally don’t have any tone anywhere on her body! Her body is like skinny-fat with same extra 15 pounds of softness. It’s kinda turn-off for me. I want to feel and see at least same definition on girl. This girl is wonderful in every else meaning. So I don’t want to break up with her for this one reason only. But I want her to have more toned body. What can I do for it? What is the best way how to goad her to tone up at least a bit?
Also, those dimples are cellulite and most women will have them, regardless of weight. I'm guessing you are new to this thing? If you expect women to not have them, you will be sorely disappointed.
If you really want to encourage her to exercise with you, go for it. Other than that you may want to find a new girlfriend if fitness isn't important to her. Chances are there are things about you she doesn't like either.
I have bran new girlfriend. She has great personality, priceless sense of humor and everything else like that I can dream of. I love to be with her and do things together. Her face is to die for and she seems to have good body also when she is dressed. But yesterday we were first time together in bed. I was disappointed how untoned her body is. I knew that she is not a fitness queen and wasn’t expecting for six-pack. But I didn’t expect that complete softness on her belly and everywhere else on her body and these dimples on her thighs also. She literally don’t have any tone anywhere on her body! Her body is like skinny-fat with same extra 15 pounds of softness. It’s kinda turn-off for me. I want to feel and see at least same definition on girl. This girl is wonderful in every else meaning. So I don’t want to break up with her for this one reason only. But I want her to have more toned body. What can I do for it? What is the best way how to goad her to tone up at least a bit?
Another one brainwashed by the seeming perfection of photoshopped and airbrushed images of women in the media!
If, despite all her other redeeming good traits, the softness of her body is a dealbreaker for you, or at least a big enough issue that you need internet strangers' opinions, do her a favor, and let her find a guy who loves her in the package she comes in. You are entitled to your preferences, and you should get all that you desire, for as long as you don't drag another unsuspecting and caring individual down about it. She does not deserve that.
But HOW to do that? I can't just go and say: "Hi, I want you to tone up!"
What are you, like 16?
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