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After knowing a woman for 7 months and dating her for 5 weeks thereafter, I got kicked out of her house twice. The first time was shocking and disappointing; the second time was demoralizing and degrading. Between time one and time two, she said there were a number of things that had come up, confusing her into believing I should have been sent home. She hoped I would come back a third time after time two ,without any formal apology. She also called me someone else's name after a moment of intimacy. This occurred within a two week period. I told her the anger she contained was overwhelming and the disturbance she brought to a relationship to connect love with tossing someone out of her house was beyond my comprehension and ability to accommodate. Her confusion was her own and a private party, not something I would share again.
No, there were no precursors or signs this was imminent. I told her unceremoniously that she was dust in my rearview window, to lose my contact information, to never try to reach me, and while I would never ignore her socially, she would know I had no desire for any future meeting. That she listened to, among many other pleasantries that had to be repeated, relative to attention, care, support, and encouragement. She was sure we were made for each other.
Has anyone had the sudden revelation that any (all?) of the bad relationship experiences you have had were - at least in part - because you had to bring yourself along?
Has anyone had the sudden revelation that any (all?) of the bad relationship experiences you have had were - at least in part - because you had to bring yourself along?
No, because heaven forbid that we might not be as perfect as we think we are.
I must share though, the time that my ex-wife and I attended our first and last marital counseling session:
You see, when the counselor had the audacity to suggest that my wife at the time needed to address some deep seeded issues, she was out of there quicker than a blink of an eye.
Short term dating relationship (less than 1 yr).... I was starting to sense the *tension* with him, but couldn't quite put my finger on it. I did an *online* criminal background check on him, leaning towards domestic violence, but there hadnt been *yet* any such issues.
The last thing I remember.... he was on top of me, with his hands around my throat, choking me until I passed out.... he kept repeating.... "smokers and liars are a crime equalivalent to murder, therefore smokers and liars deserve the death penalty" (BTW... he smokes Marlboro red 100's)
During the 3 days I laid in the hospital bed, the State's Attorney informed me of a longggg list of previous girlfriends, AND BOTH (2) ex-wives.... that all REFUSED to ever agree to charges against him, out of shear fear!
I was the 1st to press formal charges against him.
The gf after me, got helicoptered 100 miles away, and spent 2 wks in Intensive Care Unit. 5 yrs after that... he held a loaded gun to his adult son head.
I remember a girlfriend when I was in my late twenties, I had been with her for three months and it was up to then fun , games and bliss , then one night I suspected something was wrong . After a serious session of lovemaking, I was hungry, and helped me to some ... yoghurt in the fridge (I was into athletics, not a beer or softdrinks drinker). When I got back to bed , I wanted to kiss her, she turned away telling me "I was stinking of yoghurt". I felt, rightly, it was a bad omen : and loo and behold, a few days later she dumped me.
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