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Old 01-12-2015, 07:26 PM
 
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Why is that u guys like to watch porn when u have a gf ...I been with my boyfriend for 2 years now , we live together and our relationship is good u could say ..My bf is 13 years older then me I'm just 30 .. our sex life sucks he doesn't want to have sex ..I have looked on his phone and I have seen he been watching porn ..which I don't have a problem because I watch porn sometimes ...so I guess it bugs me that he doesn't want to sleep with me ..it's been over a month now ..I know he isn't cheating on me ..I guess I think maybe he isn't attracted to me I'm I just over thinking it ..
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Old 01-12-2015, 08:22 PM
 
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We can't give you an accurate answer unless you post vids of the porn in this thread.
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Old 01-12-2015, 08:53 PM
 
Location: Bay Area
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What does this have to do with California??? This isn't posted in the right forum.

Anyway, if this doesn't get moved to the appropriate forum...your bf has an addiction. It's got absolutely nothing to do with you. He obviously has MAJOR intimacy problems. If he doesn't get professional help then you need to get out of this relationship ASAP. This isn't a quality, healthy, relationship, and won't ever be if he doesn't admit he has a problem.
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Old 01-12-2015, 08:55 PM
 
Location: San Diego
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Step #1. Are you fat? Cause.....well....otherwise what Pito_Chueco said earlier.

There are chubby chasers.....just rare as the dodo. fyi
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Old 01-12-2015, 09:42 PM
 
Location: Sylmar, a part of Los Angeles
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On the right side you'll see a Current Events forum here on City Data. I just discovered it myself. All kinds of interesting topics.
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Old 01-13-2015, 05:21 AM
 
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I occasionally watch porn because it's just right there easily accessable on the internets, plus men just like looking at naked women (plural) pretty simple

your problem is not with porn, the problem is your bf not wanting to touch you

you have to figure out what it is about you or him that is causing him to not want to partake in readily avail jay-jay

what has changed?
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Old 01-13-2015, 05:23 AM
 
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Maybe he has sexual anxiety (fear of not performing), and porn is a safe way to relieve himself without fear.
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Old 01-13-2015, 06:11 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Same reason you watch porn when you have a boyfriend.

I'm not sure porn is the reason why he no longer has sex with you - you might want to have a heart to heart talk about that.
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Old 01-13-2015, 06:27 AM
 
Location: All Over
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Honestly sometimes if your busy or stressed or had a long day its easier and quicker to take care of yourself than to do something with a partner.
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Old 01-13-2015, 08:28 AM
 
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Honestly sometimes if your busy or stressed or had a long day its easier and quicker to take care of yourself than to do something with a partner.
Partners are not always in the mood/available as well.

If he is replacing sex with you for sexual pleasure with himself...that's a whole different ballgame. Porn has little to do wih that, their is other reasons why porn is the draw

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