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Old 01-12-2015, 03:28 AM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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Originally Posted by Ace_TX View Post
why the hell you buying gifts for women that never gave you any...wtf
Is this advice? Its not a wtf situation, OP said a B-Day gift. Everything in life isn't about 'whats in it for me'.
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Old 01-12-2015, 04:52 AM
 
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Is this advice? Its not a wtf situation, OP said a B-Day gift. Everything in life isn't about 'whats in it for me'.
it's definately advice

op did not buy the gift for a homie or a general friend, he bought a gift for someone he professed his like/love to

he even questions himself about if he is allowing himself to "get taken advantage of"

my wording may sound harsh but it's true
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Old 01-12-2015, 08:58 AM
 
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This happened after i told her I liked her but she never really responded to it

Her: My birthday is coming up
me: What u want for ur bday
Her: I really want this skirt for my birthday
me: im in love with you so i will get u whatever u want
her: awww u so kind
That sounds like a FRIENDZONE answer to me
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Old 01-12-2015, 09:01 AM
 
Location: Canada
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I suggest that you actually date someone once or twice before professing love. It doesn't soynd like you even know her that well.
^^^^This.

And you can't buy your way into a relationship with someone. When she mentioned it was her birthday, the correct response is Happy Birthday, not "what can I buy you". You volunteered yourself to be used, so you also have the power to stop it from happening. She's not doing anything to you that you aren't allowing.
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Old 01-12-2015, 12:53 PM
 
Location: The Great West
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Who's Brosef Stalin? And what's wrong with hitting on a girl who may have a boyfriend? It's not like they're married.
Brosef Stalin is a glib joke referring to the word "bro" that them younger peoples say, Davros.

Some people actually more integrity than to go after someone who's already committed. Going by your logic, who cares if they're married either? Divorce is easy.

In this case, it doesn't matter, since the girl clearly isn't interested.
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Old 01-12-2015, 12:56 PM
 
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This happened after i told her I liked her but she never really responded to it

Her: My birthday is coming up
me: What u want for ur bday
Her: I really want this skirt for my birthday
me: im in love with you so i will get u whatever u want
her: awww u so kind

So i got her the gift and she texts me good morning every morning and I add flirty texts but she always ignores them and just answers the questions. i.e

her: good morning (my name)
me: hey, how is the love of my life doing
her: Im doing good

another time

her: Hey (my name)
me: hey whats up. the my most favorite person doing
her: awwww im doing good

I once suggested she was taking advantage of me and she got upset.

I think she has a boyfriend. I dont check her facebook because that just seems like a road to depression.

What should I do?
Do girls act like this towards guys they are interested in?
What the hell is going. advise please
She's the love of your life? How old are you?
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Old 01-12-2015, 12:57 PM
 
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Originally Posted by unfound View Post
This happened after i told her I liked her but she never really responded to it

Her: My birthday is coming up
me: What u want for ur bday
Her: I really want this skirt for my birthday
me: im in love with you so i will get u whatever u want
her: awww u so kind

So i got her the gift and she texts me good morning every morning and I add flirty texts but she always ignores them and just answers the questions. i.e

her: good morning (my name)
me: hey, how is the love of my life doing
her: Im doing good

another time

her: Hey (my name)
me: hey whats up. the my most favorite person doing
her: awwww im doing good

I once suggested she was taking advantage of me and she got upset.

I think she has a boyfriend. I dont check her facebook because that just seems like a road to depression.

What should I do?
Do girls act like this towards guys they are interested in?
What the hell is going. advise please
Yeah, cool it with all that "I'm in love" and "love of my life" texts. That is sweet, but if she doesn't show any sign of reciprocation, then back it up a bit.

She's most likely flattered, but probably not that into you.
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Old 01-12-2015, 01:43 PM
 
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Old 01-12-2015, 02:27 PM
 
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Originally Posted by savoytruffle View Post
Brosef Stalin is a glib joke referring to the word "bro" that them younger peoples say, Davros.

Some people actually more integrity than to go after someone who's already committed. Going by your logic, who cares if they're married either? Divorce is easy.

In this case, it doesn't matter, since the girl clearly isn't interested.
I can't stop saying bro, bro.

Being someone's girlfriend doesn't mean they're committed. Marriage involves vows, dating means you're trying them out.

I don't agree that she's not interested. Saying "awwww" sounds like she's interested.
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Old 01-12-2015, 02:31 PM
 
Location: SoCal again
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Since when are you dating her?
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