Please help me figure out why he broke up with me? (separate, conversation)

[ellie]

#2 You're teens.

In five years you won't even remember who he was.

[monumentus]

Break ups happen. I understand the need for closure but it is illusionary. Move on. Some jigsaw pieces simply do not fit to each other. They do not obsess over not fitting. They just dont fit.

[Ace_TX]

this thread is synonomous to a nag

every other response was basically "but why..?"

you are a teenager, just getting your feet wet in the m/f relationship thing, it isnt that serious...did you think you would be with this bf of 4 mos. for the rest of your life???

here is the simple answer. he dumped you because he found another chick, thats how it works in teenville

you can do the same too.

[Elsa19]

I also want to clarify that the relationship wasn't sexual due to both of our religious beliefs.

[Rance]

And that is probably why he dumped you.

[RedZin]

I think you got your answer, OP.

It could be any of those reasons. Or all of them.

[ColdAilment]

Originally Posted by ellie

#2 You're teens.

In five years you won't even remember who he was.

That is not true. I remember my first significant girlfriend very well, and every girlfriend since then, that was almost 10 years ago for me. However, after just a month or so, at the most, the pain will subside and you'll move on, not worrying about them anymore.

[ColdAilment]

Originally Posted by Elsa19

I also want to clarify that the relationship wasn't sexual due to both of our religious beliefs.

I know that's been a problem before. Denying yourself one of the greatest things about a relationship can create some bad ju ju.

[Elsa19]

I'm thinking of this as a kind of survey so I would appreciate more poll votes. Thank you!

[Elsa19]

Whoever just voted, what did you vote for? Thank you!