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Old 01-22-2015, 01:02 PM
 
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Depends on the situation.

Your view also largely depends on how you feel about opposite sex friendships in general.
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Old 01-22-2015, 01:05 PM
 
Location: IN>Germany>ND>OH>TX>CA>Currently NoVa and a Vacation Lake House in PA
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I don't trust anyone that isn't friends with at least some of their exes. BIG red flag.
I'm the exact opposite and think that if you can't be friends with at least some of your exes what does that say about you?
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Old 01-22-2015, 01:06 PM
 
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I'm the exact opposite and think that if you can't be friends with at least some of your exes what does that say about you?
Its says pretty much the same thing I said, actually.
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Old 01-22-2015, 01:08 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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me too!

If all your exes hate you, that pretty much means you are an arse!
Funny. Current partners hate when you're remotely friends with and ex. Lol

That's the reason why I don't stay friends with ex's.
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Old 01-22-2015, 01:12 PM
 
Location: Encino, CA
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If you don't have kids together, why?
This is how I feel about it. If you dont have kids together then there really isnt any reason to continue to talk.
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Old 01-22-2015, 01:14 PM
 
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This is how I feel about it. If you dont have kids together then there really isnt any reason to continue to talk.

You love them and care about them and you're good friends?

That was always a good reason for me.
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Old 01-22-2015, 01:15 PM
 
Location: Canada
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me too!

If all your exes hate you, that pretty much means you are an arse!
Not talking to exes doesn't imply hatred. People simply move on and sometimes it's better not to be in contact with an ex if it doesn't add anything positive to your life. I wouldn't be rude to an ex if I ran into them but I don't need friendship from them either.
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Old 01-22-2015, 01:43 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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I never talk about my ex's. If I'm seeing a woman and she starts talking about her ex, she needs to leave me alone and get over him before she dates again.
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Old 01-22-2015, 04:13 PM
 
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If you don't have kids together, why?
We had common friends.
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Old 01-22-2015, 04:23 PM
 
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The only thing I discuss with the ex are business matters. It is civil and only related to the business matters.
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