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I'm dating a guy who is 29 years old. I honestly do not have a lot of experience in dating. His best friend is currently in a different state for some business and he told his best friend about me. My guys tells me that his best friend likes me already because according to his best friend, I'm the first girl who makes my guy feel this way. My guy tells me it's an ongoing joke between him and his best friend that my guy is heartless because my guy doesn't feel for any girl and I'm the first girl. So his best friend said damn he wants to meet the first girl who got to him.
Is this a line? Because he's been in relationships before me. how can I be the first to make him feel this way??
I've said that before to a girl. Could be line. I was certainly using it as a line. It's kind of a passive way to tell a girl that she's special (which may be meant to sweep you off your feet). The intent could be for a variety of reasons: to increase the chances of sex, to land a relationship, to show you that that he really likes you (again, passively).
I'm dating a guy who is 29 years old. I honestly do not have a lot of experience in dating. His best friend is currently in a different state for some business and he told his best friend about me. My guys tells me that his best friend likes me already because according to his best friend, I'm the first girl who makes my guy feel this way. My guy tells me it's an ongoing joke between him and his best friend that my guy is heartless because my guy doesn't feel for any girl and I'm the first girl. So his best friend said damn he wants to meet the first girl who got to him.
Is this a line? Because he's been in relationships before me. how can I be the first to make him feel this way??
Take what I'm saying with a grain of salt, because my experiences have made me a little cynical. That's not to say there is not useful counsel for you here, though.
It sounds to me like your guy's friend is doing the work of a wingman, and if that is true, this is a hustle those two probably run on every girl the guy wants um, "access" to. Tell a woman with a shaky ego what she wants to hear; who doesn't want to be told she is special, that she is the one who "broke the wild stallion" what a massage for ego. Makes ya want to throw caution to the winds and give him everything, because the friend "assures" you that you have him on lock, doesn't it?
Uh-huh. Right.....eh...probably not. But if they are hustling you, that is exactly what they want you to think and going all in sexually and emotionally is probably what they want you to do.
The smartest thing you can do is think about the women who were there before you and try to get some answers on why they are not with him anymore...along with this: since they were women, just like you, why were they enough for him. How has it turned out that he is standing in front of you claiming "you dropped some kind of "mojo bomb" on him? Analyze and investigate.
It could be a line he uses with every girl, or he could mean it.
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Be cautious. Men don't usually discuss conversations with their friend with their women. He may have told his friend about you, but the caution is that he told you what his friend said. It appears that he is saying what he wants to say to you, for whatever reason, and is making it look as if his friend was talking. Doesn't seem too honest. Why is it important to your man that you know what his friend said?
I'm dating a guy who is 29 years old. I honestly do not have a lot of experience in dating. His best friend is currently in a different state for some business and he told his best friend about me. My guys tells me that his best friend likes me already because according to his best friend, I'm the first girl who makes my guy feel this way. My guy tells me it's an ongoing joke between him and his best friend that my guy is heartless because my guy doesn't feel for any girl and I'm the first girl. So his best friend said damn he wants to meet the first girl who got to him.
Is this a line? Because he's been in relationships before me. how can I be the first to make him feel this way??
If he told you that, there is a reason...just use the info to your advantage and let things fall into place during the time being.
To be honest: if I ever hear from a man or some of his friends, that he has been in a relationship with xyz, but he didn't really care for her, then I'll run into the other direction as fast as I can!
Run girl, run!
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