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Old 01-28-2015, 06:54 AM
 
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Way too long. If you know what you're doing, it shouldn't take you an hour to "get her there", an if you are arousing her, you're just teasing her for an hour. I would be quite annoyed and frustrated and wouldn't enjoy it at all.
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Old 01-28-2015, 06:57 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Not sure what "exploring" means exactly, but a massage or oral can take over an hour, sure.
A professional can give an hourlong massage. But a man would have to have a mechanical tongue to do oral for a freaking hour.

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Old 01-28-2015, 07:18 AM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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A professional can give an hourlong massage. But a man would have to have a mechanical tongue to do oral for a freaking hour.

Lmao! I've been married to a robot for 19 years then. I must also be a robot.

You DO know oral can involve more than just going mla mla mla mla mla ... Don't you?
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Old 01-28-2015, 07:28 AM
 
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I could see spending an hour if there's a massage involved.

It should be occasional. Not every single time. If so, she'll start to avoid sex because people don't have an hour plus set aside a few times a week for you to go exploring, spelunking, or whatever.
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Old 01-28-2015, 07:29 AM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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True!
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Old 01-28-2015, 07:38 AM
 
Location: New Yawk
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I don't have the attention span for an hour of foreplay, especially with 3 little c-ck blockers in the next room. My preferred format is: a little of this, a little of that, and none of it lasting too long.
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Old 01-28-2015, 07:42 AM
 
Location: San Bernandino, CA
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Some of you must either be a bunch of chumps or your women don't know how to climax.

I have been lucky in that most of the women I have been with can and do have MULTIPLE orgasms. The one I am with now I can get absolutely convulsing in less than 5 minutes and as long as she can handle it, as many times as she can physically stand it. 8-10 times is the norm, no BS either. I always make sure she has 4 or 5 before I get my nut too.

Some of you all might want to revist your techniques, lol

I feel sorry for you all who have women who cant have multiple orgasms, must be boring
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Old 01-28-2015, 07:51 AM
 
Location: U.S. (East Coast)
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Ooh. I agree about the massage.. nothing relaxes me more than an amazing massage.

In my opinion, foreplay shouldn't last over 30 minutes or so (much longer if I'm doing D/s or heavy bondage on someone).. and sex itself no longer than 20 or so.

If I have to go longer than that to have my fill of orgasms, I'd be raw and sore...
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Old 01-28-2015, 08:17 AM
 
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Foreplay starts when you pick them up for the date, right?
The older you get the less time you have between the dishes, laundry, phone calls, Cialis wearing off, getting dressed again without hurting your back, the neighbor stopping by, favorite show coming on, or the pot roast getting done.

Save the "traveling" to when your in a hotel room with nothing on tv.
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Old 01-28-2015, 08:29 AM
 
Location: Virginia Beach, VA
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A professional can give an hourlong massage. But a man would have to have a mechanical tongue to do oral for a freaking hour.

I guess I'm a robot. I've done it that long a few times. What my wife says to do I do. If she wants me to slow down, I slow down. If she wants me to up the wattage I do. It's easy for a couple in tune with each other to pace themselves.
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