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I did not. I have dated lots of single dads. They tend to be broke and angry individuals. At least the ones I have met.
I choose single over dealing with that. I am also not necessarily looking for someone to move in with me. Of course if I meet the right guy, my house would be big enough. But cool with living with just the kids and I.
You do realize most childless men won't even look at you, right? You are attracting broke men because you are on assistance. Everyone here knows this.
Yes it does matter because you are taking advantage of taxpayers. Don't you get this? Of course you are attracting men without good financial situations because you aren't top of the line. Sorry but you're not, you're on food stamps and medicaid.
What part of men have no idea that I get food stamps are you not grasping?
Men see that I drive a $40k+ fully loaded SUV and own 2 houses in an expensive state. If anything, men think I am loaded. Give my maiden name and they know I have wealthy parents. Really I come across as very affluent. Not at all trashy. I realize you do not know the real me, but your assumptions and projections are exhausting at this point.
I dated a single mom once. She was always broke too, but she had a bangin' body and never had her kid. I'm not even sure she had custody. Come to think of it I'm almost positive she didn't. No idea who owned her kid though.
I do have custody of my kids. Sole custody as a matter of fact. Every single night of the year. Well unless they do sleepovers with friends or family.
I am not broke and can afford to date with no issues. However I do not want to be the sole provider in any relationship. I want a partner that will be part of my team, not be a financial drain.
What part of men have no idea that I get food stamps are you not grasping?
Men see that I drive a $40k+ fully loaded SUV and own 2 houses in an expensive state. If anything, men think I am loaded. Give my maiden name and they know I have wealthy parents. Really I come across as very affluent. Not at all trashy. I realize you do not know the real me, but your assumptions and projections are exhausting at this point.
The real reason it's so difficult to believe what you're saying is that I know first hand how easy it is for women to find "quality" guys around here. I mean, there seems to be such an abundance of quality men here, that even a decent guy like me, who has it together, has an extremely difficult time finding a quality woman who will give me a chance because they have so many other amazing options apparently.
That's why I have such a difficult time believing that you're the "catch" that you say you are. If you're a wealthy woman who doesn't come across as trashy in the least bit, it seems like you would have a very easy time finding a quality man to accept you. Sometimes the proof is in the pudding.
What part of men have no idea that I get food stamps are you not grasping?
Men see that I drive a $40k+ fully loaded SUV and own 2 houses in an expensive state. If anything, men think I am loaded. Give my maiden name and they know I have wealthy parents. Really I come across as very affluent. Not at all trashy. I realize you do not know the real me, but your assumptions and projections are exhausting at this point.
Wow so you have wealthy parents, drive a 40k SUV and abuse the system? people like you make all those who need assistance look bad. You are trashy for taking advantage of the system when you don't need it and yes people spot trashy behavior a mile away.
I do have custody of my kids. Sole custody as a matter of fact. Every single night of the year. Well unless they do sleepovers with friends or family.
I am not broke and can afford to date with no issues. However I do not want to be the sole provider in any relationship. I want a partner that will be part of my team, not be a financial drain.
So in other words you want a man to help out with the household expenses, aka help support you and your kids. I can't figure out why you can't meet a man like that.
The real reason it's so difficult to believe what you're saying is that I know first hand how easy it is for women to find "quality" guys around here. I mean, there seems to be such an abundance of quality men here, that even a decent guy like me, who has it together, has an extremely difficult time finding a quality woman who will give me a chance because they have so many other amazing options apparently.
That's why I have such a difficult time believing that you're the "catch" that you say you are. If you're a wealthy woman who doesn't come across as trashy in the least bit, it seems like you would have a very easy time finding a quality man to accept you. Sometimes the proof is in the pudding.
Hey she's single and so are you, why not give her a chance?
Yes but is she as well off as Low On Luck? After all, she has two houses so maybe she'll give you one?
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