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OP - I'm kinda surprised you're on here asking what to do ? He's moved on.
Most of the time I hear this story the other way around. A guy in your place trying to get the girlfriend back - but usually hear how upset the girlfriend is blah, blah, blah
It sounds like you're both not right for each other. You didn't get him anything for Christmas which says alot. Even something little to let him know you're thinking of him and he's special. Ok well that's not what happened - then you're with a guy on your vacation and don't contact him and now you want to know what's up ? You're kidding ?
Leave the guy alone now, doesn't sound like he wants to hear from you.
If you two aren't official, then being with someone else isn't cheating. I think the real problem is the lack of communication for three weeks on your end. I think some communication (even just an email here or there to say hi), would have been best. If you really like this guy, apologize and see if you can move on.
You were totally disrespectful of this guys feelings. You did only what you wanted to do, how you were comfortable and to have fun - without even giving a thought to him. You get what you deserve. And saying: "Bear in mind that he doesn't even know I cheated" - is *that* supposed to make you look better? OH PLEASE! You are a self-centered, immature girl. Grow up and learn how to respect other people's feelings. Yeah, NEWS OF THE DAY: others have feelings too!
If I write my idea it wont be bright any way. If I am dating some one I do it serious and from my heart. I cannot be with another guy while I give hopes to some one else. So from my side it is hard to give you a bright idea good luck!
If you two aren't official, then being with someone else isn't cheating. I think the real problem is the lack of communication for three weeks on your end. I think some communication (even just an email here or there to say hi), would have been best. If you really like this guy, apologize and see if you can move on.
Just wanted to clarify something since I was vague in my first post and worded it wrong. 3 weeks was the total amount of time I was away for. I communicated with him in the first leg of my journey, for around a week. Then I left for a country in Asia which has limited electricity and I did not have a phone. I was here for around 11 days. In this time I did not communicate. Once I was back in the more developed country at the airport, I used the airport wifi to contact him.
Just wanted to clarify something since I was vague in my first post and worded it wrong. 3 weeks was the total amount of time I was away for. I communicated with him in the first leg of my journey, for around a week. Then I left for a country in Asia which has limited electricity and I did not have a phone. I was here for around 11 days. In this time I did not communicate. Once I was back in the more developed country at the airport, I used the airport wifi to contact him.
That actually sounds more reasonable, did you let him know that you will not be able to communicate for 11 days? If you travel to remote places where communication is difficult, you probably should've let him know that you will not be in frequent contact. Maybe he could've expected an e-mail once a week or so.
So maybe he is a bit insecure in a relationship, does not know much about travel, etc. Perhaps you guys were not a good fit anyway?
Not much you can do now though. You can e-mail him an explanation if you want but who know if he will accept him. You might want to wait for a few weeks and then move on...
Just wanted to clarify something since I was vague in my first post and worded it wrong. 3 weeks was the total amount of time I was away for. I communicated with him in the first leg of my journey, for around a week. Then I left for a country in Asia which has limited electricity and I did not have a phone. I was here for around 11 days. In this time I did not communicate. Once I was back in the more developed country at the airport, I used the airport wifi to contact him.
So you didn't really mean:
"Once I was on holiday however, I decided to just have fun with my friend and I didn't get in touch with my guy for a few weeks, and ignored his attempts to contact me.I also got with another guy in a club while I was away ... "
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LOL
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