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Old 02-03-2015, 01:26 PM
 
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Let's see how much he misses you when you tell him you cheated.



Just a kiss my foot. I sense no remorse from you at all and I don't think you deserve this dude. He's really foolish if he goes back to you. Just being honest.
Being with someone else when you're non-exclusive hardly constitutes cheating.
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Old 02-05-2015, 06:11 AM
 
Location: Portland, OR
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Am I the only one who thinks the story feels fishy? Not the first post, na uh! The first post was, IMO, genuine. The girl totally ignored the boy - which she confessed to and cheated on him with another guy. Only after people here decided to speak their mind and it turned out we DON'T THINK the original guy is a donkey because he ignores her, things started to turn around. Like in a good suspense movie: the trip was to a country with electricity problems! And there was no cheating just a harmless smooch and actually she wasn't so much into the first boy it was just casual. What a turn of the tides! And now it's a super duper happy end with a lovely couple back together! What a load of nonsense. And what makes me think so? There is absolutely no remorse or feeling sorry from the girl! She's constantly trying to come off as a good ol' gal which is misunderstood.

I am not buying that.
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Old 02-05-2015, 11:59 AM
 
Location: metropolis
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Why is it always the "not so nice chicks" like you who get the good guys? SMH. I hope he has someone else. You ignored his calls on purpose for weeks, now you want to pick up where you left off? I hope he told you to go kick rocks.
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Old 02-06-2015, 11:38 PM
 
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He meets your parents. That's a pretty big sign usually. I never want to meet a woman's parents unless I'm feeling her on something more long term. He gets Xmas presents, and u get him nada. He reaches out while you are on vacay and you ignore him. Men aren't stupid.

If you have been seeing him for 4 months, I'm assuming you have had sex. Once the bond is formed on that level multiple times, honesty is certainly a must. You don't think that guy could feel you breaking that bond with some other guy? He was probably calling you while you were on your back for the other guy. Been on both sides of that. At this point, you can either be honest or just end it.
He needs to know what type of woman you are and not be kept in the dark. There's is nothing wrong with you two knowing the best and worst about each other. You will be surprised by how accepting people are. But by the tone of you post, I don't think you felt wrong for hooking up while on vacation. Either way, let us know what you decide to do and how it goes. Good luck!
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