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Yes, although it doesn't need to be much. I have to know that he's able to hunt and bring home bacon.
It would be such a strain to be the sole financial source in a household. What about when I'm pregnant and want to leave work for several years to raise the kids and homeschool them at a very young age for a few years before they start going to school? How would we live? I'm 30 years old and I want a family someday so these are things I think about, whether my future family with a prospective husband would be secure, being among those things.
Men have requirements of women to be with us, too.
There are women that feel differently than this, but they're not going to pop in the thread and say so.
Of course there are women out there who are materialistic or who want to be treated like a princess, but most average, everyday women aren't like that. I have no idea where some of the guys on this board are meeting all these women who don't have jobs and who are looking for a sugar daddy to fund an extravagant lifestyle, but I don't see them in my day-to-day life. Generally, as TLC put it, women don't want no scrubs.
No, I don't expect a guy to be wealthy, I just expect him to be living independently, supporting himself and not acquiring useless debt.
As far as gifts and material good, meh, I don't really care about that stuff so if I were single I wouldn't immediately discount a guy because he couldn't buy me Prada and diamonds.
Of course there are women out there who are materialistic or who want to be treated like a princess, but most average, everyday women aren't like that. I have no idea where some of the guys on this board are meeting all these women who don't have jobs and who are looking for a sugar daddy to fund an extravagant lifestyle, but I don't see them in my day-to-day life. Generally, as TLC put it, women don't want no scrubs.
lol! It certainly isn't the norm. A lot of the guys who post here must time-travel back to the 1940's and 50's.
I think few (if any) "decent" men expect much financially from women. Women may not expect wealth but they usually want at least someone who carries their own weight and can offer some security if they plan to start a family - I don't think that's at all unreasonable.
some women told me that a women dont want someone who cant do anything for them. but sometimes i feel character matter allot, but they told me in the real world it takes allot more. they said adults realize that you need more than just feeling love, you need to take care of your women. but many times i hear stories about how women who are sitting there taking care of men...... i dont get that? wich one is it ? because to be honest i was the type that would not give a women something but now in life i would. but i am scared that a women would leave me for one of those bad men that they are attracted to. i hear stories that women are giving their things to men who are playing them, i thought women wanted men to give them things and love them. the world makes no sense to me sometimes?
To answer the question in your title - Nope!!! He does not need money to be with me, but he needs his integrity intact, have good manners, treats others with respect, and applies himself when necessary. All these things are free, and show me what kind of person you truly are on the inside. I can manage down my lifestyle at any time for the right man without compromising who I am or who he is.
some women told me that a women dont want someone who cant do anything for them. but sometimes i feel character matter allot, but they told me in the real world it takes allot more. they said adults realize that you need more than just feeling love, you need to take care of your women. but many times i hear stories about how women who are sitting there taking care of men...... i dont get that? wich one is it ? because to be honest i was the type that would not give a women something but now in life i would. but i am scared that a women would leave me for one of those bad men that they are attracted to. i hear stories that women are giving their things to men who are playing them, i thought women wanted men to give them things and love them. the world makes no sense to me sometimes?
I can take care of myself and no don't care if he has money. This isn't the 1950's.
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