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i know this is probably played out to the max.. the same questions over and over but here it goes. so lately i have been having great success with getting number and women sincerely ( well so i think) looking to hangout and perhaps go on dates... but to no avail it doesnt happen. now a little background, im not all that shy, i would say average on the shy scale and i dont like to talk on the phone but can talk a girls ear off in person. im an avid texter, is it possible this could be hurting my game, instead of just calling? is it weird to want to hangout a few times before i want to talk on the phone? im getting frustrated with the whole thing either they want to or dont and if they dont quit leading me on
I am the same way. Women want a challenge, and for those that are "talkers", we are seen as desperate or perhaps pushy. Try to hold back some and not give so much.
i mean im wondering if im texting to much or not anough. literally with one girl i kind of messed up. i went out with here like 3 times all the while i was going out with another, then after 2 months of not talking, i decided she was a much better choice so i have been texting for 2 months trying to get her to come out but its one excuse after another. if she wasnt interested then she would stop texting me back! so im extremely confused. i pretty much apologized to her for losing communication. at this point im damn serious about deleting her number from my phone
i mean im wondering if im texting to much or not anough. literally with one girl i kind of messed up. i went out with here like 3 times all the while i was going out with another, then after 2 months of not talking, i decided she was a much better choice so i have been texting for 2 months trying to get her to come out but its one excuse after another. if she wasnt interested then she would stop texting me back! so im extremely confused. i pretty much apologized to her for losing communication. at this point im damn serious about deleting her number from my phone
Two months of not talking? Stick a fork in her, she is done.
i mean im wondering if im texting to much or not anough. literally with one girl i kind of messed up. i went out with here like 3 times all the while i was going out with another, then after 2 months of not talking, i decided she was a much better choice so i have been texting for 2 months trying to get her to come out but its one excuse after another. if she wasnt interested then she would stop texting me back! so im extremely confused. i pretty much apologized to her for losing communication. at this point im damn serious about deleting her number from my phone
if you went out on 3 dates with a girl you should have gotten sex.
c-d dating guide page 17. use the search here.
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also talking a girls ear off isnt a good thing. she should be the one running her mouth that way you can listen closely and gather the information you need to use against her (cddg, page 33, paragraph 2)
i mean im wondering if im texting to much or not anough. literally with one girl i kind of messed up. i went out with here like 3 times all the while i was going out with another, then after 2 months of not talking, i decided she was a much better choice so i have been texting for 2 months trying to get her to come out but its one excuse after another. if she wasnt interested then she would stop texting me back! so im extremely confused. i pretty much apologized to her for losing communication. at this point im damn serious about deleting her number from my phone
My guess is that she knows you back-burnered her and is keeping you at arm's length in case you do it again. She's probably waiting to see if you're sincerely interested this time before investing time in you.
My guess is that she knows you back-burnered her and is keeping you at arm's length in case you do it again. She's probably waiting to see if you're sincerely interested this time before investing time in you.
Yep. His thread topic wants to know why women do the things they do, when he really should be asking himself why he dos the things he does...
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(cddg, page 33, paragraph 2)
