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Old 02-05-2015, 11:53 AM
 
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Thank you Captain obvious. This is what I'm trying to relate to danielj who is equating that to women want to be "taken care" of like its 1950 because they care if a man can/will make a decent living.
There are a few, but I think they are a vast minority. What you have to understand, that many men who are adults today, grew up with traditional dating advice that is really ineffective in modern dating world, and this is why they believe that having money is the key to success with women. They were taught "get a career, buy a nice home and a car, and you can pick any woman you want" or "treat her like a princess and shower her with gifts" or "make sure you can impress her" type nonsense. Since this advice people who usually hold their best interest at heart, they internalized these beliefs and that is difficult to change. Proper game is the concept that helps such men bridge the gap.

 
Old 02-05-2015, 11:56 AM
 
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He said he's "polite when appropriate". When is politeness not appropriate, in attracting and dating women? Never mind, I don't want to know. lol
Let me give you an example, being polite when having sex with a woman is a complete turn off in most cases. Unless women secretely want a man that asks permission for every move they make in bed and does it all in a nice and polite way. If not for roughly 40 years of life experience, I could almost buy that.
 
Old 02-05-2015, 11:59 AM
 
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Mod cut.

Whining and making blanket statements about the other sex is not a productive discussion but rather a fight looking for a venue.

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Old 02-05-2015, 12:06 PM
 
Location: London
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Face it every man would put up with a pretty faced woman even if she has nothing going for her. The same is not true for the opposite. A man with nothing going for him is quick to be called out as weird, a bum, unambitious, not making the best of his usefullness, ect. Why?

Is it because men are expected to lead and be a outpost for others to live their lives based on.
And if the woman didn't win the genetic lottery, nothing else will redeem her.

So I'd say that men have it better, as they can actually improve their dating life, whereas women are stuck with the hand they were dealt.
 
Old 02-05-2015, 12:17 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Yeah, my game is tops. This is why I am able to attract tons of young, beautiful women without much effort. None of them mind at all, being just one of the few I may be currently dating. It wasn't always this way, but im glad I woke up from the blue pill coma, so many AFCs tend to struggle with. Life in the top 10-20% of men is a whole lot better than the other 80%, who are all but ignored by desirable women.
I don't understand? If you're such the suave with a tight game, why the whining thread?

Ya know, playa, men that truly have game never mention it, nor are they on a public forum preaching it.

They're out there getting the job done.
 
Old 02-05-2015, 12:42 PM
 
Location: NW Indiana
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