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Attractive (to me), keeps herself fit, isn't caught up in the unhealthy parts of modern society, is naturally biased towards monogamy (vs playing the field), is intelligent, has at least decent self awareness (so she can observe herself and make corrections when necessary), kind, compassionate, of strong will...
I could keep going, reality is that even a small percentage of this stuff is enough to make me interested, since it all seems so rare nowadays.
I like my wife. She's pretty ideal. Learning to love the one you have is way more important than having the perfect ideal. Plus my wife makes it easy on me.
+1. Ah, maturity has taught you wisdom. I have learned some as well by growing up and also by being in numerous failed relationships. These failures were often based on my silly shallow physical requirements such as OP's. My soon to be wife is awesome. She is a cutie, no doubt, very petite and has a great smile and wicked sense of humor. She is also very smart, hard working, outspoken, stubborn, generous, caring, and kind. She thinks the same of me, I believe. And not only do I love her, I like her as a person. We enjoy spending time doing things together, whether it's eating dinner, watching TV, talking, being intimate, walking our dogs, whatever. Sure, we have conflicts, but that's mostly because we're so alike.
Think of this as your "dream" significant other. What qualities do you look for?
This is my "dream" girl:
- Great smile
- Great hygiene
- Friendly and bubbly
- Athletic build
- Has an awesome family
- Loves my family and friends
- Conservative or at least moderate
- "Gets" my sense of humor
- Has a great sense of humor and can make me laugh
- Family oriented
- Considers herself a Christian
- Has motivation in life to be successful
- Always up for anything fun
- Physically attractive in MY eyes(beauty is in the eye of the beholder right?)
- Loves and respects me for who I am
I experience the qualities my Husband has every day.
Someone who isn't afraid to argue and question things that are usually accepted. Intelligent, of course. Good sense of humor. You know, the usual stuff.
-makes me feel like an angel/pornstar/princess/queen/superhero/partner all at the correct times
-funny
-affectionate
-hard worker
-listens to me and is interested in what I'm saying
-has his own values and sticks to them, is honorable
-amazing sex
-tells me what he wants and needs
-knows how to be a man--not a macho a**hole--but a man
-has beautiful eyes
-knows how to compromise
-challenges me
-always makes sure I know I'm loved and safe
-likes and loves me for who I am
-makes a real effort
-makes me feel like an angel/pornstar/princess/queen/superhero/partner all at the correct times
-funny
-affectionate
-hard worker
-listens to me and is interested in what I'm saying
-has his own values and sticks to them, is honorable
-amazing sex
-tells me what he wants and needs
-knows how to be a man--not a macho a**hole--but a man
-has beautiful eyes
-knows how to compromise
-challenges me
-always makes sure I know I'm loved and safe
-likes and loves me for who I am
-makes a real effort
Wait.
Loves you for who you are AND makes you feel like an angel/pornstar/princess/queen/superhero/partner?
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Loves you for who you are AND makes you feel like an angel/pornstar/princess/queen/superhero/partner?
Yes. I knew I was gonna get crap for this list :/ *sigh*
Ok,
I feel I have, in small amounts, qualities of all of those.. "roles" for lack of a better word. He would see those in me as well and remind me. Does that make sense?
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