Why does he want to be "friends" with me now? So weird? (guys, call)
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I don't know if any of you remember the post where I wrote my platonic guy friend a letter, and he turned around and said I was "ugly" a "stalker", and "creepy", and that he is "creeped out" by me, and won't ever be in my presence? Well I cut him out. I wanted people's insight on this because I find this really strange. Rick has been coming around, and I came into my house and to my surprise he was there once again. I got mad and I called him a "parasite", and I left. I know that was childish, but I got so angry that he was at my house. So, when I left he was talking to my mother. He said "I just want to be friends with her. But I can see that Ashley will never be close to anyone. She'll always have party buddies. She'll always have people because she's nice and social, but she'll cut people out."
Then he text me saying "I am not a parasite." "Seriously, Ashley don't hold a grudge forever, I am constantly doing dumb **** and you always get so offended. I'm sorry. I'm not asking to be your bff, but I really do like you as a person and don't want you to think otherwise or that I don't have your back. Hopefully you can let go of this, and we can at least be civil." WTF? He's the one that said I was "creepy", and a "stalker". So I didn't respond to his text, but of course I saw him again the next day. Because he delivers pizza lol, and he was delivering my dad's pizza.
He came over and FORCED a hug on me, and he kept saying "Am I still a parasite?" I said "I have to talk to you" he said "I can't right now. I am on the job." I said "Ok, then later?" He said "Call me" I never did. Now my dad says to me "Rick said you guys are friends again, and you guys are talking." I said "No that's not true! I am not friends with him! I wanted to talk to him. Doesn't mean I am friends with him or I want to be." He has yet to contact me. What the hell? What is the point of that? Like in his delusional head I am "friends" with him, but yet he doesn't contact me, so what is the point in being "friends"? I want your opinion on this. I find this so strange because if anything, I thought I was doing him a favor!
I couldn't follow most of that, but friends don't call you ugly and creepy. Continue cutting him out and stop worrying about his intentions. He sounds like a jerk.
I couldn't get through all the drama in the OP. But what stood out was that she came home one day, and her ex was in her house? How'd he get there? That's stalkerish. And then he called the OP's mom to bad-mouth the OP? I hope the mom didn't fall for it. I've heard of dudes doing that--trying to manipulate an ex's parents.
OP. Restraining order time. The sooner he's out of your life, the better. /thread.
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