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I am very angry and hurt about discovering that hubby has been utilizing his supposed "business" laptop to view "naked breast and sexy videos. They do show some nudity, but not the actual act of sex. I know that while I see a pattern of once a month or maybe on a business trip with this youtube sleeze. I have told my spouse in the past not to views this stuff as I believe it is a form of infidelity and jeapordizes trust in our marriage. I am a disabled women with many health issues, so I cannot deny that my spouse is sex starved, but the more I find him being devious and using porn to get off, the less interested I am in sexual relations. I am limited to begin with because of health reasons and not for any other reason. Should I give him the boot or am I missing the big picture?
He's not cheating on you. He's not having sex with other women. He's not talking to live women. He's not sexting with other women. He's looking at porn. He's horny and he's taking care of things himself. Many men are visual and need to look at something in order to get off. And he isn't even doing it everyday or every week. And he's also not even looking at porn - it sounds like he's just looking at sexy pictures. So I really don't see the big deal - but I'm not you. Everyone is different. I certainly wouldn't throw away what I have with my husband because he looks at some pictures.
He's a man. As a fellow man, let me enlighten you:
We all love pictures of naked women. We love video's of naked women. Naked women are awesome.
He isn't cheating on you. Our love for naked women other then our significant other doesn't mean we don't love our significant other, just like when you watch a movie with some hunk of a move star and enjoy it, it doesn't mean you aren't into your man.
At least he isn't into crazy online porn or something, basic pictures are about as benign as you can get.
I am very angry and hurt about discovering that hubby has been utilizing his supposed "business" laptop to view "naked breast and sexy videos. They do show some nudity, but not the actual act of sex. I know that while I see a pattern of once a month or maybe on a business trip with this youtube sleeze. I have told my spouse in the past not to views this stuff as I believe it is a form of infidelity and jeapordizes trust in our marriage. I am a disabled women with many health issues, so I cannot deny that my spouse is sex starved, but the more I find him being devious and using porn to get off, the less interested I am in sexual relations. I am limited to begin with because of health reasons and not for any other reason. Should I give him the boot or am I missing the big picture?
You are disabled with multiple health issues. Does he take care of you?
If he does and you are considering divorce over something so minor, you are at fault here, not him.
I am very angry and hurt about discovering that hubby has been utilizing his supposed "business" laptop to view "naked breast and sexy videos. They do show some nudity, but not the actual act of sex. I know that while I see a pattern of once a month or maybe on a business trip with this youtube sleeze. I have told my spouse in the past not to views this stuff as I believe it is a form of infidelity and jeapordizes trust in our marriage. I am a disabled women with many health issues, so I cannot deny that my spouse is sex starved, but the more I find him being devious and using porn to get off, the less interested I am in sexual relations. I am limited to begin with because of health reasons and not for any other reason. Should I give him the boot or am I missing the big picture?
Personally, I love watching porn WITH my husband. We still have a fantastic sex life even tho he watches porn.
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