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Old 02-11-2015, 07:40 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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i dont need to go as far as pressing charges i will just go as far as moving on with my life. he has been calling me but i ignore his calls, i have blocked his number he has not been calling my job but if he begins to i will get a restraining order

this monday i will begin to take some yoga classes as well as exercise more and i am enrolling in some courses soon to keep myself occupied and away from drama
Uh-huh. And if you had a daughter who was beaten up, would you advise her not to tell police but just take yoga?

I personally don't think you need yoga. You need psychotherapy for your emotional health. You can't be all, "I'm 23 years old! I'm grown and I do what I want!" and then lie and sneak out of the house like a teenager.
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Old 02-11-2015, 07:55 AM
 
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Uh-huh. And if you had a daughter who was beaten up, would you advise her not to tell police but just take yoga?

I personally don't think you need yoga. You need psychotherapy for your emotional health. You can't be all, "I'm 23 years old! I'm grown and I do what I want!" and then lie and sneak out of the house like a teenager.
even if i did i would lose he wasn;t letting me leave his apartment and forced me to say i hit him first and i abused him first he recorded me on his phone saying this
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Old 02-11-2015, 07:56 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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even if i did i would lose he wasn;t letting me leave his apartment and forced me to say i hit him first and i abused him first he recorded me on his phone saying this
You would lose what??

Whatever. Don't file charges, that's fine. But you need counseling. Badly.
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Old 02-11-2015, 07:59 AM
 
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You would lose what??

Whatever. Don't file charges, that's fine. But you need counseling. Badly.
i will get help i have low self esteem
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Old 02-11-2015, 08:07 AM
 
Location: Endless Concert
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Contact a woman's shelter - there's woman's domestic abuse numbers - alot of information and support is out there. They will help you safely get out of this relationship.

Blessings
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Old 02-11-2015, 08:56 AM
 
Location: Northern VA
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Obviously it's not you fault that he hit you, but sounds like you could've handled some things in a more mature manner. And cheating is never right no matter the circumstances. Hope things are better for you going forward and you can stay away from guys like that. I'd advise staying out of a relationship for awhile to work on yourself. It's not good to always have to relay on another person to feel good about yourself.
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Old 02-11-2015, 11:10 AM
 
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Obviously it's not you fault that he hit you, but sounds like you could've handled some things in a more mature manner. And cheating is never right no matter the circumstances. Hope things are better for you going forward and you can stay away from guys like that. I'd advise staying out of a relationship for awhile to work on yourself. It's not good to always have to relay on another person to feel good about yourself.
it was a mistake i made i saw messages on his phone and they were nude photos of himself.
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Old 02-11-2015, 11:15 AM
 
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Obviously it's not you fault that he hit you, but sounds like you could've handled some things in a more mature manner. And cheating is never right no matter the circumstances. Hope things are better for you going forward and you can stay away from guys like that. I'd advise staying out of a relationship for awhile to work on yourself. It's not good to always have to relay on another person to feel good about yourself.
its not my fault this is someone significantly bigger than i am way bigger than i am and all i did was shove him out of the door way he budged but took me down with him and then we both god up and he punched me on the side of my head internally cutting me and now i have a scar
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