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Old 02-09-2015, 02:21 PM
 
Location: romania
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perhaps you could spend your time improving your grasp of English.
sorry,i will do my best
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Old 02-09-2015, 02:23 PM
 
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Look, if you want to be miserable the rest of your life, fine. Stay with this man. If you can't work on things with him, I recommend you pick up some hobbies because it's going to be a long ride.

Your son is essentially an adult, very soon. If you want, wait another year and move out.

Doesn't matter how long you've been with this guy, really. Who cares? You're miserable.

Are there monetary reasons you can't leave?

If you can't leave and are just here to complain, you might want to get a journal, because nobody here is going to give you a pity party.

If you are unhappy with your life, you can;
*Accept it
*Change it

Pick one and go with it. You are luckily an adult that has a choice. I'm not familiar with your customs or laws, but to me, if your husband seriously does not make you happy or give you a life that you two can happily work on together, leave.
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Old 02-09-2015, 02:24 PM
 
Location: Terra
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Take me to Bran Castle and Corvin Castle in Romania. I'll be your date.
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Old 02-09-2015, 02:26 PM
 
Location: romania
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Look, if you want to be miserable the rest of your life, fine. Stay with this man. If you can't work on things with him, I recommend you pick up some hobbies because it's going to be a long ride.

Your son is essentially an adult, very soon. If you want, wait another year and move out.

Doesn't matter how long you've been with this guy, really. Who cares? You're miserable.

Are there monetary reasons you can't leave?

If you can't leave and are just here to complain, you might want to get a journal, because nobody here is going to give you a pity party.

If you are unhappy with your life, you can;
*Accept it
*Change it

Pick one and go with it. You are luckily an adult that has a choice. I'm not familiar with your customs or laws, but to me, if your husband seriously does not make you happy or give you a life that you two can happily work on together, leave.
thank you
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Old 02-09-2015, 02:27 PM
 
Location: southwestern PA
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perhaps you could spend your time improving your grasp of English.
That's uncalled for! How good is your grasp of Romanian?
I think the OP is doing a great job communicating...
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Old 02-09-2015, 02:28 PM
 
Location: southwestern PA
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OP, if you are lonely IN a relationship, that relationship is not right for you.
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Old 02-09-2015, 02:30 PM
 
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Do you have any friends or outside sources that you can talk with that isn't your boyfriend?
Do you have difficulty making friends?

If you have the resources I would suggest attendimg some common interest groups
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Old 02-09-2015, 02:33 PM
 
Location: romania
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OP, if you are lonely IN a relationship, that relationship is not right for you.
thank you, excuse my english every one,i learned english on my own as an ocupation to keep my mind togheter ,so i don t go crazy.
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Old 02-09-2015, 02:55 PM
 
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You know what I hate?

Threads that start one way (ie loneliness) then you find out half a page later its ACTUALLY about a dysfunctional relationship.

No wonder he's tired of you, OP.
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Old 02-09-2015, 02:56 PM
 
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That's uncalled for! How good is your grasp of Romanian?
I think the OP is doing a great job communicating...
If shes Romanian, perhaps a Romanian forum would be better, as they would understand her limitations and restrictions far better than an American one ever could?

I smell a rat.
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