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Old 02-12-2015, 08:50 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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but i love him and yes he has hit me but i have hit him back
1) Get a new phone number. I am dead serious. If you can't stop answering calls from numbers you don't know, get a new number.

2) Get professional help.

3) You don't love him. You love the idea of him. But he's an *sshole, and you don't really love him.
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Old 02-12-2015, 08:53 AM
 
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1) Get a new phone number. I am dead serious. If you can't stop answering calls from numbers you don't know, get a new number.

2) Get professional help.

3) You don't love him. You love the idea of him. But he's an *sshole, and you don't really love him.
i cant get a new number because i am going for a new job soon once i get this job i will get a new number
i dont know what to do i dont
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Old 02-12-2015, 08:56 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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i dont know what to do i dont
Then you aren't paying attention.
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Old 02-12-2015, 08:58 AM
 
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Then you aren't paying attention.
i have been ignoring all of his calls i spoke to him once and he said to me to stop and just give it a chance

"all couples and relationships aren't perfect, people do things to eachother but all that matters is that they have each others backs and i have your back and i love you"

this is hard
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Old 02-12-2015, 09:00 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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i have been ignoring all of his calls i spoke to him once and he said to me to stop and just give it a chance

"all couples and relationships aren't perfect, people do things to eachother but all that matters is that they have each others backs and i have your back and i love you"

this is hard
No, it's not hard.

Bullsh*t, he has your back. He's a loser and an abuser. Neither one of you knows what love is.
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Old 02-12-2015, 09:24 AM
 
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It's clear that both of you don't view physical violence as a problem, and this can be for many reason such as past abuse issues. I can assure you it 's a huge problem, and if you continue the relationship, at some point you'll be dealing with law enforcement, serious injuries, and possibly death. I realize to people in situations like yours view statements like that as being an alarmist. This is the problem, you need counseling to work through this in order to see that this is a dangerous situation.

I'd suggest finding a women's shelter/domestic violence place to talk to someone, and don't let him know you're going to do this. His behavior of tracking you down is telling that he's a loose cannon. Nobody on here is going to suggest you stay with this guy, seriously, nobody.
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Old 02-12-2015, 09:36 AM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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but i love him and yes he has hit me but i have hit him back
As other posters have said - nobody here is going to tell you to back to him. No sane person is ever going to give that advice to someone in an abusive relationship. Either get the help you need or acknowledge that you don't value your own life.
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Old 02-12-2015, 09:53 AM
 
Location: Oklahoma
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Um... Did YOU read the responses to your other thread??
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Old 02-12-2015, 11:10 AM
 
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its not that easy guys it really isnt
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Old 02-12-2015, 11:11 AM
 
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i have feelings for this man me and this man gave so much of ourselves to each other sex without a condom is a huge deal
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