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Ace_TX
Yes, I would. As long as he still have that fineeeee face, and dress like a thug. I will date him. I need to have the intense sexual attraction to a guy, before anything can happened.
His job salary is meaningless to me. I'm the fiercely Financial independent girl. I'm more than capable of take care of myself.
But this life I'm married. Unless my husband divorce me, I date your friend next life, lol
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btw LowonLuck, I'm not here to argue with you about Truck driver. All professions have cheaters. Even doctors and lawyers, there are casese where they cheats on their wives too.
My husband is a local Truck driver, he only drive locally. So I'm sure there isn't any girls behind my back in 48 states, lol
I'm sure he can make more money drive interstate. But no money in this world is worth more than my husband, I need my husband too.
Different people have different taste. You think country style are sexy. Others think Rock and Roll style are sexy. I think the thug/gangster style are sexy. It all up to each individual taste. Let leave it at that.
Anyways, back to topic. We talking about 'bad boys", not clothing style. Bad boys is a lifestyle of how they choose to live their life, not how they dress.
Ace_TX
Yes, I would. As long as he still have that fineeeee face, and dress like a thug. I will date him. I need to have the intense sexual attraction to a guy, before anything can happened.
His job salary is meaningless to me. I'm the fiercely Financial independent girl. I'm more than capable of take care of myself.
But this life I'm married. Unless my husband divorce me, I date your friend next life, lol
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btw LowonLuck, I'm not here to argue with you about Truck driver. All professions have cheaters. Even doctors and lawyers, there are casese where they cheats on their wives too.
My husband is a local Truck driver, he only drive locally. So I'm sure there isn't any girls behind my back in 48 states, lol
I'm sure he can make more money drive interstate. But no money in this world is worth more than my husband, I need my husband too.
Different people have different taste. You think country style are sexy. Others think Rock and Roll style are sexy. I think the thug/gangster style are sexy. It all up to each individual taste. Let leave it at that.
Anyways, back to topic. We talking about 'bad boys", not clothing style. Bad boys is a lifestyle of how they choose to live their life, not how they dress.
Oh I dont argue. Just saying stop saying he is a good guy because he is a truck driver. That is just not the case. I have met, fired and dealt with a lot of truck drivers. That is one industry I do know well.
and spent 5 years in the pen, had an epiphany and is now 35 yrs old and is *reformed* as you all say
he now has a regular 9-5 at like a big box store punching a clock making an honest living
would you lovely ladies give this guy a shot?
oh and lets assume he's "good looking"
I don't want to say that I wouldn't give someone a chance but I never dated anyone that had been arrested and I really just can't picture doing so. Definitely wouldn't date someone with a history of domestic violence, attempted murder, robbery, etc.
I've never been into bad boys or reformed bad boys. I've always preferred good men. It's not like there has ever been a shortage of good men.
the guy in the scenario has been keeping his nose clean and has had a 9-5 for say a couple of years
as far as "depth" goes all you can do is take a mans word if he says he is *reformed* and
observe his actions
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Redzin and Julia thanks for the honest responses
You're welcome, Ace.
I think that I agree with Julia re: the types of priors that might be okay... maybe he used to hop in the car and drive while drinking because he was young and stupid or maybe he and his buddies decided to steal some hubcaps... you know, that sort of thing is something I think a person can mature and grow out of.
If he's got a history of domestic violence, attempted murder, etc? Nope. Not ever going to be okay with that.
There are too many other men in the world to be keeping time with someone like that unless your rap sheet is just as long as his. Know what I mean?
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I can get over being young, dumb and desparate, but really violent behavior would bother me too much. If it was long, LONG ago and I felt like I knew the man, only to be told later about something deep in the past I would have never suspected ... maybe. Somebody raped his sister so he went after him with a gun and got in trouble ... maybe. Hearing up front about the rap sheet is too shocking.
Significant violence or rape would be a dealbreaker. That crosses a line I would not be able to get past.
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