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Old 02-18-2015, 05:40 AM
 
Location: USA
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Ace_TX
Yes, I would. As long as he still have that fineeeee face, and dress like a thug. I will date him. I need to have the intense sexual attraction to a guy, before anything can happened.
His job salary is meaningless to me. I'm the fiercely Financial independent girl. I'm more than capable of take care of myself.
But this life I'm married. Unless my husband divorce me, I date your friend next life, lol



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btw LowonLuck, I'm not here to argue with you about Truck driver. All professions have cheaters. Even doctors and lawyers, there are casese where they cheats on their wives too.
My husband is a local Truck driver, he only drive locally. So I'm sure there isn't any girls behind my back in 48 states, lol
I'm sure he can make more money drive interstate. But no money in this world is worth more than my husband, I need my husband too.

Different people have different taste. You think country style are sexy. Others think Rock and Roll style are sexy. I think the thug/gangster style are sexy. It all up to each individual taste. Let leave it at that.


Anyways, back to topic. We talking about 'bad boys", not clothing style. Bad boys is a lifestyle of how they choose to live their life, not how they dress.

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Old 02-18-2015, 06:55 AM
 
Location: My House
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so, um

lets say you have a guy that from like 15-25 yrs old accumulated a rap sheet that reads

aggravated assault
robbery
attempted murder
domestic violence
dui/dwi
etc

and spent 5 years in the pen, had an epiphany and is now 35 yrs old and is *reformed* as you all say

he now has a regular 9-5 at like a big box store punching a clock making an honest living

would you lovely ladies give this guy a shot?

oh and lets assume he's "good looking"
Nope. Rap sheet is too long. I don't care where he works, though.
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Old 02-18-2015, 07:34 AM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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Theft and DUI, possibly. Assault, domestic violence, and attempted murder, nope. Next.
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Old 02-18-2015, 07:41 AM
 
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Ace_TX
Yes, I would. As long as he still have that fineeeee face, and dress like a thug. I will date him. I need to have the intense sexual attraction to a guy, before anything can happened.
His job salary is meaningless to me. I'm the fiercely Financial independent girl. I'm more than capable of take care of myself.
But this life I'm married. Unless my husband divorce me, I date your friend next life, lol



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btw LowonLuck, I'm not here to argue with you about Truck driver. All professions have cheaters. Even doctors and lawyers, there are casese where they cheats on their wives too.
My husband is a local Truck driver, he only drive locally. So I'm sure there isn't any girls behind my back in 48 states, lol
I'm sure he can make more money drive interstate. But no money in this world is worth more than my husband, I need my husband too.

Different people have different taste. You think country style are sexy. Others think Rock and Roll style are sexy. I think the thug/gangster style are sexy. It all up to each individual taste. Let leave it at that.


Anyways, back to topic. We talking about 'bad boys", not clothing style. Bad boys is a lifestyle of how they choose to live their life, not how they dress.
Oh I dont argue. Just saying stop saying he is a good guy because he is a truck driver. That is just not the case. I have met, fired and dealt with a lot of truck drivers. That is one industry I do know well.
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Old 02-18-2015, 09:25 AM
 
Location: Oklahoma
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Originally Posted by Ace_TX View Post
so, um

lets say you have a guy that from like 15-25 yrs old accumulated a rap sheet that reads

aggravated assault
robbery
attempted murder
domestic violence
dui/dwi
etc

and spent 5 years in the pen, had an epiphany and is now 35 yrs old and is *reformed* as you all say

he now has a regular 9-5 at like a big box store punching a clock making an honest living

would you lovely ladies give this guy a shot?

oh and lets assume he's "good looking"
A person is not "reformed" simply from getting out of jail and getting a job, I think we're talking a lot more in depth than that.
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Old 02-18-2015, 09:36 AM
 
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A person is not "reformed" simply from getting out of jail and getting a job, I think we're talking a lot more in depth than that.
the guy in the scenario has been keeping his nose clean and has had a 9-5 for say a couple of years

as far as "depth" goes all you can do is take a mans word if he says he is *reformed* and
observe his actions

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Redzin and Julia thanks for the honest responses
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Old 02-18-2015, 09:53 AM
 
Location: Denver, CO
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So you're saying you can't date a guy unless he has a criminal past? LOL

I heard Charles Manson is back on the dating market. No, seriously.

Charles Manson marriage: Fiancée Afton 'Star' Burton still under the impression she will wed serial killer - People - News - The Independent

Maybe you can compete for his heart.
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Old 02-18-2015, 10:02 AM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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so, um

lets say you have a guy that from like 15-25 yrs old accumulated a rap sheet that reads

aggravated assault
robbery
attempted murder
domestic violence
dui/dwi
etc

and spent 5 years in the pen, had an epiphany and is now 35 yrs old and is *reformed* as you all say

he now has a regular 9-5 at like a big box store punching a clock making an honest living

would you lovely ladies give this guy a shot?

oh and lets assume he's "good looking"
I don't want to say that I wouldn't give someone a chance but I never dated anyone that had been arrested and I really just can't picture doing so. Definitely wouldn't date someone with a history of domestic violence, attempted murder, robbery, etc.

I've never been into bad boys or reformed bad boys. I've always preferred good men. It's not like there has ever been a shortage of good men.
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Old 02-18-2015, 10:20 AM
 
Location: My House
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the guy in the scenario has been keeping his nose clean and has had a 9-5 for say a couple of years

as far as "depth" goes all you can do is take a mans word if he says he is *reformed* and
observe his actions

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Redzin and Julia thanks for the honest responses
You're welcome, Ace.

I think that I agree with Julia re: the types of priors that might be okay... maybe he used to hop in the car and drive while drinking because he was young and stupid or maybe he and his buddies decided to steal some hubcaps... you know, that sort of thing is something I think a person can mature and grow out of.

If he's got a history of domestic violence, attempted murder, etc? Nope. Not ever going to be okay with that.

There are too many other men in the world to be keeping time with someone like that unless your rap sheet is just as long as his. Know what I mean?
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Old 02-18-2015, 10:28 AM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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I can get over being young, dumb and desparate, but really violent behavior would bother me too much. If it was long, LONG ago and I felt like I knew the man, only to be told later about something deep in the past I would have never suspected ... maybe. Somebody raped his sister so he went after him with a gun and got in trouble ... maybe. Hearing up front about the rap sheet is too shocking.

Significant violence or rape would be a dealbreaker. That crosses a line I would not be able to get past.
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