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So this happened to me today. I was supposed to have a lunch date with a lady and she never showed. It's sad because I really liked her but I guess it happens. My only question is do I call her and ask her what happened or just delete her from my phone and move on? Is calling her too creepy?
Politeness dictates she should have called you to cancel, she choose not to be considerate of you. Write her off. I mean unless she calls you with something like she was in an accident and rushed to the hospital, but that's probably unlikely.
I'm sorry that happened to you.
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It's needy. Don't bring it up and move on. It's up to you if you want to hang with her another time or continue to chat with her.
I can't imagine hanging out with her and not bringing it up. I mean it's pretty humiliating. I'm thinking of either asking for an explanation or just pretending she doesn't exist.
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Originally Posted by Wmsn4Life
Not enough info.
Do you know each other? Have you been out before? Is this unusual for her?
We met at a party and hit it off. I asked her out and talked to her on the phone once for about an hour. We both agreed to the date and she never showed.
Well, you could say "I was at X location at Y time--didn't we have a plan to meet, or did I get that wrong?" That would give her a chance to apologize and maybe set another date (or just possibly, you might learn that you got the details wrong). But if you don't think there's any chance you'll forgive her, then consider it over at this point.
Well, you could say "I was at X location at Y time--didn't we have a plan to meet, or did I get that wrong?" That would give her a chance to apologize and maybe set another date (or just possibly, you might learn that you got the details wrong). But if you don't think there's any chance you'll forgive her, then consider it over at this point.
I can forgive her but I'm just wondering if she's just irresponsible or sending me a signal of "I don't like you". I mean we hit it off when I met her and our conversation on the phone seemed nice enough. I just don't understand why it would go from that pleasant to suddenly being stood up.
Politeness dictates she should have called you to cancel, she choose not to be considerate of you. Write her off. I mean unless she calls you with something like she was in an accident and rushed to the hospital, but that's probably unlikely.
I'm sorry that happened to you.
I have to agree with this. As we see with some young women on this site, some feel bad or awkward with rejecting guys. So they do more subtle things.
Give the guy your number, then block him when he calls.
Give out a fake number
Not show for a date, or meet
Lie and say they're seeing someone.
etc.
So, she may have had 2nd thoughts, or didn't wanna outright reject you, so she did this. Because one would think if she liked you and something came up, she'd have found time to let you know.
So, probably best not to contact her. Even if something did genuinely come up, she's shown lack of people skills with not warning you beforehand.
I can't imagine hanging out with her and not bringing it up. I mean it's pretty humiliating. I'm thinking of either asking for an explanation or just pretending she doesn't exist.
It's needy. Does your life revolve around this girl? No, of course not. Maybe, you started chatting up another girl while at the coffee shop that you completely forgot about girl A ditching you. Okay, maybe that didn't happen in your case, but I wouldn't bring it up as if it is a big deal.
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Originally Posted by Sjd1
We met at a party and hit it off. I asked her out and talked to her on the phone once for about an hour. We both agreed to the date and she never showed.
She may have just forgot. Did you text her beforehand. "Hey, I'm heading to XYZ. We still meeting? etc."
She may have just forgot. Did you text her beforehand. "Hey, I'm heading to XYZ. We still meeting? etc."
No I didn't actually.
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