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I've been dating a guy for about 5 months. He's 29 and I'm 25 so it's not like he's super young. I thought he was the greatest guy. However, please tell me if this sounds right. Whenever he seems clips of things I like on facebook or instagram, he would tag me on facebook or instagram in that clip's comment box. For example, he knows I love dogs, and he came upon this popular clip of a cute dog on facebook so he tagged me @myname under the comments section. I thought it was sweet because he did it a few times for things that reminded him of me. However, yesterday I check his facebook and I saw he did the same thing to do other girl. He doesn't know that I can see this because under facebook, if you put your friend under the close friends list, you can see his activity. He put her name so she can see it under some clip that reminded him of HER. Do I know this girl? NO. That girl is definitely not his sister or cousin. I don't want to ask him because he's going to ask me how I knew. Am I overreacting??
If you have to look at something without telling him you are snooping into things that are none of your business which clearly shows you do not trust him.
The choice is yours what to do about your distrust of this man.
I think that's normal, so it should be fine, don't make a big deal out of something when is really nothing. If you are still concern about it, talk to him and let him know about your concern. Don't assume anything.
Why would he not know that you can see what he did? Just ask him about it. He did it on Facebook - it's not like he was sneaking around about it. I put things on my friends' timelines because something reminds me of them. It doesn't mean anything.
LOL, paranoid? He isn't a player, if he was, he would have multiple facebook accounts, where you would be his only friend. Players don't become so, by being stupid. They have 2-3 burners, brand new facebook accounts, multiple email accounts, creating new accounts when they meet new friends. Everything is new, clean slate means no evidence, and no suspicions. You should worry if a guy you meet just created a facebook account, and you are his first and only friend, that's the guy who is fronting, and one to watch out for.
Don't be too possessive. The other women might be co-workers or just friends.
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