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Old 02-23-2015, 02:16 PM
 
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I get it hun, but THIS:

Im allergic to weed and he is addicted to smoking. He gives me massive allergic reactions that take over a week to go and are incredibly painful
We weren't committed after 5 months and I felt he was stringing me along
He was really inconsiderate sometimes
I was NOT a priority to him and I deserve to be one
He was terrible/selfish in bed (WTF? Ed)
We barely texted and he sometimes took a whole day to text back yet always has his phone in his hand
He told me my allergic reactions are my fault
He used to ask to see me, I would suggest a day and then he would say 'I'll let you know' and take ages to get back to me
He wants to live with his brother for the rest of his life
The sex thing - we only recently started having sex and he has a premature ejaculation problem it seems. Every time we do it it is over in literally 2 minutes and he doesn't bother getting me off afterwards. Recently he started trying a little bit more but its still a bit of a fail. He has never gone down on me. Ever.
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Old 02-23-2015, 02:21 PM
 
Location: St. Catharines, ON
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The sex thing - we only recently started having sex and he has a premature ejaculation problem it seems. Every time we do it it is over in literally 2 minutes and he doesn't bother getting me off afterwards. Recently he started trying a little bit more but its still a bit of a fail. He has never gone down on me. Ever.
Well, have you asked why not?
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Old 02-23-2015, 02:23 PM
 
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Potheads are not successful. Sorry, not buying your update.
I'm not into smoking, but I'd have to disagree. I know quite a few couples who are really successful, and they chose to smoke a bowl, instead of drinking scotch, probably every day.

As for the OP, the bottom line is that no matter how much you can stack the deck in the favor of "holding onto him", the simple fact is that anyone who has no regards for your health, isn't worth holding onto. Sorry, but the fact he is willing to get better at f'n, doesn't erase the fact that his hobby has such negative effects on your health.
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Old 02-23-2015, 02:31 PM
 
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The sex thing - we only recently started having sex and he has a premature ejaculation problem it seems. Every time we do it it is over in literally 2 minutes and he doesn't bother getting me off afterwards. Recently he started trying a little bit more but its still a bit of a fail. He has never gone down on me. Ever.
Move on, bad sex = bad relationship.
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Old 02-23-2015, 02:32 PM
 
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Well, have you asked why not?
Nope. We barely talk about sex because he is overly defensive about his sexual performance and gets very upset if I insinuate he is not good in bed
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Old 02-23-2015, 02:40 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Did the OP say how old they both are??
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Old 02-23-2015, 02:46 PM
 
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I am 27, he is 29.
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Old 02-23-2015, 02:54 PM
 
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I thought you were about 17.
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Old 02-23-2015, 03:40 PM
 
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Because of the pot?
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Old 02-23-2015, 03:52 PM
 
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No, because of your neediness and list making.
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