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Old 02-25-2015, 06:28 PM
 
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Maybe this is a topic for another thread but it's related so I'm throwing it out there..

How do you find out someone is cheating if it's always wrong to snoop no matter what? Jw what people's opinions are..
Exactly! Sometimes looking can save you years of wondering and you can move on with your life - possibly onto a better partner. People aren't always honest
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Old 02-25-2015, 06:30 PM
 
Location: All Over
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I'm never a fan of looking through someone's stuff, its immature and it's an invasion of privacy. If you feel the need to look through someone's phone you should probably just end the relationship or talk to them about whatever your issue is. Also if your planning on leaving this guy anyway just leave him don't look through his stuff. You probably won't like what you find anyway.
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Old 02-25-2015, 06:56 PM
 
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Maybe this is a topic for another thread but it's related so I'm throwing it out there..

How do you find out someone is cheating if it's always wrong to snoop no matter what? Jw what people's opinions are..
Its your job to keep this person from cheating. If you have suspicions, ask yourself if you were there.
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Old 02-25-2015, 08:48 PM
 
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If you're going to break up with him, why go through his phone? What, you need ammunition to smack him or something? Not really necessary, ever.
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Old 02-25-2015, 09:45 PM
 
Location: Corona the I.E.
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Don't people secure their devices? Password, keep it on themselves so they CD, FB, Tweet

Have a calm talk with him or end based on lack of trust.
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Old 02-25-2015, 09:48 PM
 
Location: Corona the I.E.
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I take issue with the phone look through. I absolutely refuse to let anyone go through my phone. This includes the wife. Some people actually want privacy.
Strongly agree. I get a stipend from my employer for my cell service and when they asked to see my phone I just said no my device not happening.
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Old 02-25-2015, 09:54 PM
 
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I have confidential work emails on my phone so I couldn't just give it to who ever wanted to see it. If I was with someone who insisted to see my texts I'd show them, then show them the door. It's that easy if we can't trust each other it's done. Simple
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