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Old 04-30-2015, 06:00 AM
 
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I met a girl on okcupid and went on a date. She just go out of a 5 year relationship. Her ex cheated on her. She said she's just seeing what is out there.

She said that during the date and then again when I asked her on a second date (which she did agree to)

Should I just take this slow and see where it leads?
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Old 04-30-2015, 06:06 AM
 
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I met a girl on okcupid and went on a date. She just go out of a 5 year relationship. Her ex cheated on her. She said she's just seeing what is out there.

She said that during the date and then again when I asked her on a second date (which she did agree to)

Should I just take this slow and see where it leads?
Yes... the relationship I am currently in (9 months) started out exactly as you explained, except 2 years, not 5
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Old 04-30-2015, 10:25 AM
 
Location: Terra
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She's just looking for booty.
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Old 04-30-2015, 04:23 PM
 
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take it slow..it could lead to something
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Old 04-30-2015, 05:59 PM
 
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Proceed how u want, could be a complete waste of ur time, or may be what u want
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Old 04-30-2015, 10:28 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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Any girl who is out dating and saying "I don't want commitment" is basically just looking to have sex with a bunch of guys.

You can get laid easily, but if you want anything remotely stable.. I'd just steer clear.
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Old 04-30-2015, 11:15 PM
 
Location: Lebanon, OH
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This girl has trust issues, and who could blame her. If you can be the stand up guy her ex wasn't then it could work out for you.
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Old 05-03-2015, 02:12 PM
 
Location: Copenhagen, Denmark
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Any girl who is out dating and saying "I don't want commitment" is basically just looking to have sex with a bunch of guys.

You can get laid easily, but if you want anything remotely stable.. I'd just steer clear.
I've met quite a few who have time for sex, but romance gets in the way of their careers.
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Old 05-03-2015, 02:20 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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If you're just looking for a good time I'd say why not, if you're looking for a LTR or marriage, I'd say move on, she's telling you right up front that nothing is going to come of it. I'd suggest you listen to her.
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Old 05-03-2015, 02:27 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Any girl who is out dating and saying "I don't want commitment" is basically just looking to have sex with a bunch of guys.

You can get laid easily, but if you want anything remotely stable.. I'd just steer clear.
This.
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