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I'm 21 and have only ever had one boyfriend in my life - let alone he is the only person I'm aware of that has ever liked me. I don't think I'm ugly, and I've been told I'm pretty countless of times, or that I've won the genetic lottery (if it helps I'm often compared to Kylie Jenner - who I think is beautiful). A lot of the time people are surprised when I tell them I don't have a boyfriend. Yet guys just look at me and never approach me. Most recently this one guy I am interested in asked for my number - which was a change in what I'm used to. He never ended up texting me, so I decided to text him after a while, and never got a reply.
I don't think it's a personality issue, because I've never even gotten an opportunity to offer that to anyone. At this point my self-esteem is pretty low, and I'm starting to think that I am ugly and people just tell me I'm pretty because they feel bad.
Perhaps you give off an unfriendly vibe and people don't want to approach you because of that. That or an insecure vibe. Or crazy eyes. Anything is possible! Getting approached isn't all about looks if you have less personality than a pickled egg.
I'm 21 and have only ever had one boyfriend in my life - let alone he is the only person I'm aware of that has ever liked me. I don't think I'm ugly, and I've been told I'm pretty countless of times, or that I've won the genetic lottery (if it helps I'm often compared to Kylie Jenner - who I think is beautiful). A lot of the time people are surprised when I tell them I don't have a boyfriend. Yet guys just look at me and never approach me. Most recently this one guy I am interested in asked for my number - which was a change in what I'm used to. He never ended up texting me, so I decided to text him after a while, and never got a reply.
I don't think it's a personality issue, because I've never even gotten an opportunity to offer that to anyone. At this point my self-esteem is pretty low, and I'm starting to think that I am ugly and people just tell me I'm pretty because they feel bad.
Ask your friends or the guys you think don't like you why they don't like you.
There is no one here on this forum who could even venture a responsible guess since no one here knows you.
How many boyfriends do you think you should have had by the age of 21?
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