Need Insight Into a Woman's Thinking

[DennyCrane]

Originally Posted by Dewdroplet76

No matter how you try to put it, it still seems to me like you were testing her.

I still don't see it that way. Not even in the slightest. All I see is me going on with my life.

Originally Posted by snugglegirl05

Take a break from Jill and from Mary.

Why would I take a break from Mary?

[snugglegirl05]

Originally Posted by DennyCrane

I still don't see it that way. Not even in the slightest. All I see is me going on with my life.



Why would I take a break from Mary?

Well...

Thirteen pages of responses from others and from you regarding your original post is too much in my opinion.

All this going back and forth regarding 2 females you know is too much in my opinion.

I am beginning to wonder if Jill is an emotionally immature person.

[Atalanta]

As uncomfortable as it may be, I would flat out ask Jill what she is thinking/feeling.

Your friendship, or what once was, deserves it.

You both invested in that friendship at one time.

I am female, and I would like that of my male friend.

[Atalanta]

Women can be mean and caddy to each other big time.
Do you think Mary said some out of place things to Jill that you don't know about?

[DennyCrane]

Originally Posted by snugglegirl05

I am beginning to wonder if Jill is an emotionally immature person.

I've thought that LONG before all this stuff happened with Mary. I suspect that my friendship with Jill was going to end sooner or later. Me dating Mary was just the trigger.

Originally Posted by Atalanta

As uncomfortable as it may be, I would flat out ask Jill what she is thinking/feeling.

I have. The problem with Jill is that she becomes very passive aggressive. If you ask her about her behavior, no matter how nicely, she shuts down. When she does open up, it's either through text message, email or Facebook. Almost never in person.

Originally Posted by Atalanta

Women can be mean and caddy to each other big time.
Do you think Mary said some out of place things to Jill that you don't know about?

I doubt it. Mary is very good-natured. She was always nice to Jill, even inviting her out to girls' night out with her friends.

[Lilac110]

I wouldn't read anything into this beyond Jill not particularly liking Mary and being a jerk about it.

Originally Posted by snugglegirl05

Well...

Thirteen pages of responses from others and from you regarding your original post is too much in my opinion.

All this going back and forth regarding 2 females you know is too much in my opinion.

I am beginning to wonder if Jill is an emotionally immature person.

I agree. Definitely not worth 13 strokes.