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if I was a guy, I probably wouldn't. I have known an escort and her friends and hung out with them once and honestly their cynicism about life is not attractive. I would prefer someone who is closer to my level of life experience in regards to sex and relationships. Trust and respect would be too difficult to develop, and the general difference in mentality between us would not make it a great relationship anyway.
well if she was an ex prostitute --
then that means she wasn't doing it any more-- but old habits die hard.
i have heard some miner stories that indicated they make great wives.
but we should not confuse prostitution with anything else, like deception which is something far worse and far more damaging. fyi lots of guys are married to prostitutes, they just dont know it much more than one would think.
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For me, personally, if I was in love with her, I wouldn't really care what she did in her past.... all I need is her to be faithful and loyal to me in the relationship... I wouldn't care what anybody said... I would marry her and love her... and that would be easy because I would of already loved her... I notice a lot of people expect me (because I make a lot of money) to marry someone who makes a lot of money as well (which I did but that isn't the point).... I would sooner marry a waitress, a stripper, or whatever as long as I loved her and she loved me and was faithful and honest to me...
I think it would depend on the circumstances. If a person were coerced into prostitution at a very young age, then escaped that lifestyle as an adult, I don't think I'd hold that against him/her. But I think I'd want some couples counseling before taking the big step, just to make sure there weren't any serious issues under the surface.
No smart prostitute (whether she's a street walker or high end "escort") will ever tell the person s/he plans to marry that they were once a prostitute. Mainly because of the attitudes displayed here. There is no difference between scr*wing around while dating (sex for "free") or being prostitute. But some some reason, people who know they've had multiple sex partners want to put themselves on a moral high horse.
No, she wasn't. One of the popes decided to combine Bible passages involving different women to make MM a prostitute.
What I find odd is that we've got a generation of young people now who are "sexting" naked pictures of themselves to virtual strangers, all sorts of "Girls Gone Wild" types of exhibitionism and exploitation, and other methods by which hordes of young women are engaging in sex acts for public viewing. Little is being done about it.
Increasingly, average folks are going to begin to discover that their honeys' charms have been enjoyed worldwide. Does that bother anyone?
C'mon people, have you ever watched Pretty Woman???
I actually watched it...I forget if it was at someone's house or on an airplane. All I could think is how Richard Gere had NOTHING in common with Julia Roberts and that this catered to women who, despite not having the greatest of backgrounds, could land a "big fish"...and that this was NOT REALITY, but a MOVIE.
I suppose it could happen, but generally women who have worked as a prostitute would have a hard shell and thus would not be appealing. My two cents.
if I was a guy, I probably wouldn't. I have known an escort and her friends and hung out with them once and honestly their cynicism about life is not attractive. I would prefer someone who is closer to my level of life experience in regards to sex and relationships. Trust and respect would be too difficult to develop, and the general difference in mentality between us would not make it a great relationship anyway.
You have described a good percentage of the human race.
I've worked with enough abuse victims in my free time to conclude that most of you are slaves to the media. But as a matter of raw common sense, I find it amusing how so many of you who would/have never been with an ex-prostitute (and it is your right) can speak to their intelligence, ability to form relationships and physical cleanliness/health. Common sense, how could anyone know what these abilities/attributes are unless they have been with one? Just curious.
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