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We use to work with a girl who would spout the gospel about how cheaters are this that and the other and how it was the ultimate betrayal and they should all be put down. It was to the point people started calling her "righteous Riley"
We all just assumed she had been cheated on in the past and it was her unresolved feeling towards it bubbling her temperament over.
Three years in to her work placement she was fired for fooling around with the shipping manager who she always claimed was "just a good friend" when people questioned her (over)attachment towards him.
Never say never...people will attempt to justify anything under the right circumstance, situations and conditions
Last edited by rego00123; 03-24-2015 at 05:44 PM..
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I'm with Believe. I've yet to hear someone who has cheated say that it was their fault and they are the one who are responsible.
My xww cheated on me. It was my fault cause I did "this" or I did "that".
So I am a bit biased on the subject. Hurt me, that's fine. Hurt my kids(or any kids), and I get a lil bit pissy.
And yes I also judge people. When someone says they don't judge, total BS.
The question was not if we are sorry or regret it or whatever. And we do not have to apologize to you personally for our mistakes on our previous relationships.
I don't see how it's in anyway helpful to call people out on their "excuses" when they're putting themselves out there an being honest about their actions. Anything beyond that, they only have to answer to the person/people they were unfaithful to.
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Originally Posted by Capt. Cave Man
I'm with Believe. I've yet to hear someone who has cheated say that it was their fault and they are the one who are responsible.
My xww cheated on me. It was my fault cause I did "this" or I did "that".
So I am a bit biased on the subject. Hurt me, that's fine. Hurt my kids(or any kids), and I get a lil bit pissy.
And yes I also judge people. When someone says they don't judge, total BS.
I don't see how it's in anyway helpful to call people out on their "excuses" when they're putting themselves out there an being honest about their actions. Anything beyond that, they only have to answer to the person/people they were unfaithful to.
Then don't call out people who say they only hear excuses.
I think people need to "man up"(be honest) to what they do. Nothing wrong with making a mistake, we all make mistakes. But don't blame someone else for your own actions.
ex. "You work too hard so I slept with someone else".
Being honest, others don't make someone else cheat. That is called rape.
nope
Ive had plenty of open relationships (dating) or long term dating where we still saw other people...but I never lied or deceived my intentions...and when I did commit, I didn't cheat
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