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Today, I'm having three crushes (real people, no celebs), I'm probably in love with someone with whom it just won't work out, and I will always have a place in my heart for the one who got away, more than 20 years ago.
Tomorrow I'm off of work and school, so I'm planning to drop a crush or two but pick up several more
Luckily, I had a great relationship with my biggest crush of all.
I don't want to take away from the OP, but I'm interested in this concept.
How many times does a 'crushee' acknowledge the 'crusher', and a how often does it develop into a relationship? Or, do most real crushes go unrequited?
I don't want to take away from the OP, but I'm interested in this concept.
How many times does a 'crushee' acknowledge the 'crusher', and a how often does it develop into a relationship? Or, do most real crushes go unrequited?
Most do not progress...that's the nature of a crush...but yeah....sometimes they go to the next step...lol....even with celebrity crushes a time or two.
Lots of passing fancies, a few crushes (more when I was younger at male sexual peak). I don't associate the term 'crush' per se, I'd call them women who I instantly feel an urge to merge and be one with and ones who I feel delight in their presence. Not so much a crush as when one is younger (i.e. inordinate amount of time thinking about them) but a solid desire for what character, physical, and other qualities all rolled into one they seem to convey to me.
Like the brunette teller at one bank branch I frequent (more so now) with the mesmerizingly beautiful green eyes or the young co-ed in line in front of me this past weekend. Light natural redhead with some freckles, I don't think she had any makeup on, a slight upturned nose, cute face, knowing eyes, gymnast /dancer body (she was wearing shorts) and after she noticed I was admiring her while we both waited in line - and commiserated about the two tellers being both preoccupied with other customers for over 15 minutes - she did that catlike morning stretch with her arms over her head to show her full form in all its loveliness like a water fountain nymph sculpture.
Now today I saw a stunner in blue dress that I instantly fancied. She was walking south to north on main thoroughfare. I was walking west to east. She apparently was coming from the deluxe hotel and apartments celebs live at, and with the NBA finals in town I could only surmise she was someone's wife/ gf / rental for the evening. Simply stunning brunette, about 6'2 in heels and all woman. Wow, I fancied that .... for a fleeting moment and it was just as lovely as she was walking away from me.
I fancy a lot when the population I deem worthy of fancying crosses my path.
And I derived vicarious pleasure reading your post. Love your command on the subject matter.
I have no idea. But the number of annual crushes has declined as I have gotten older!
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