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Am I wrong to expect to move into a completely new place in the next 1-2 years so it is all OUR stuff and not all his?
I would say this all depends on the relationship. What you are asking isn't as clear cut as say, am I wrong in expecting my man not to sleep with other women when I'm in a committed relationship. Have you even told him your future expectations yet?
Lol, right. I have 3 motorcycles, and my garage smells like a petrol station.
Seriously, whats with the motorcycles in the house? oh wait, you guys get all nasty on them, huh?
pssssst
No, I really don't smell anything. His garages are full with cars so he put his bikes into the hallway area where there are tiles.
Last night my dog destroyed her bed and he said "I hope she doesn't destroy anything else in MY house." That hurt and once I told him "YOUR house!!!" he said I am overreacting he didn't mean it like THAT.
He already made his nest and likes it. But I don't and now feel selfish for not liking a nice, big, and clean house.
My house is much smaller, the area is kinda bad but I made it all modern inside the way I like it. I miss it a little and don't want to feel like a guest forever in his house. Am I spoiled and should be more thankful?? I mean it is awesome that he doesn't want rent from me (I offered) so I feel like a d*ck for not liking it.
If he won't budge to compromise and make "our" house "our home," then he's still into himself. I'd just move back to my own house and stay there. See how he likes it then. It's not as if you're a spouse with rights to his property.
So I am sort of living at my bf's house since the day we met.
We made the decision that I rent out some furnished rooms in my house,
about 10 minutes away. Still keeping one foot in it, just in case.
So most of my personal stuff is now at my bf's house.
He gave me a room where I put all my belongings.
The furniture and dishes and stuff is still at my house and stays there for now.
Am I wrong to expect to move into a completely new place in the next 1-2 years
so it is all OUR stuff and not all his?
Yes. Absolutely wrong.
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I moved into a man cave, his pics on the walls, his manly bed sheets, his decoration,
motorcycle in the living room. Fine with me, but the house just doesn't feel like HOME to me.
This sounds like it's more the guy than the place you have issues with
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I want a fresh start where I can decorate and feel like it is OUR place.
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and he said "I hope she doesn't destroy anything else in MY house." That hurt and once I told him "YOUR house!!!" he said I am overreacting he didn't mean it like THAT.
