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I'm asking you for any advice you can offer me to salvage a potential relationship
I've known this girl for over a year and I truly love her, and I know that no matter what I say you won't believe it's actually love, but it is. There hasn't been a day where I haven't stopped thinking about her in months, I do love her
But it's an unreturned love
I confessed to her a couple of months back and sure enough she have me a chance, but I screwed up, I was always bad at first impressions, always nervous and awkward for the 1st time, especially around people I have strong feelings for
After that, she started ignoring me, but we still saw each other on the weekdays at college, it was a bad situation, I ended up falling out with some of her friends and that didn't end well either, I had a confrontation with her new boyfriend iswell, who broke up with her
I only have a couple of weeks left until I never see her again,
we don't even speak anymore
is there anything I can do ?
any way to change her mind about me ?
If she is going out of her way to avoid you and you had issues with her friends/boyfriend, I wouldn't be surprised if she threatened you with legal intervention, if you tried contacting her again. (I'm not joking or being mean.) Things like that usually scream "stay away" to people.
I don't have any advice on how to get her back but I think you should probably just move on. We make mistakes, screw things up, it's life and human nature. But we also move on and begin new chapters. It's your turn.
If she is going out of her way to avoid you and you had issues with her friends/boyfriend, I wouldn't be surprised if she threatened you with legal intervention, if you tried contacting her again. (I'm not joking or being mean.) Things like that usually scream "stay away" to people.
I don't have any advice on how to get her back but I think you should probably just move on. We make mistakes, screw things up, it's life and human nature. But we also move on and begin new chapters. It's your turn.
NO she hasn't threatened me with legal intervention
She'd speak to me if I spoke to her
Look I'm not a bad person, I'm not unattractive or anything
All I did is screw up
Oh I see how this is going to go....you basically made this thread to validate your feelings.
1. You say you want advice on how to get her back, and claim you'll listen to any advice given.
2. The situation is basically hopeless.
3. Everyone gives the most realistic advice which is not what you want to hear so you continue to pursue the girl despite what we say.
You basically have your mind made up about what it is you're going to do. You have this wild movie fantasy in your mind that there is a chance when there is none. You'll realize one day.
Don't put me down
because you don't know what I've been through
you have no idea how much I care about her and how much pain this is caused me
please
if you have anything to say
offer me some useful advice
I've tied moving on but I can't
I only have a couple of weeks before I never see her again
at the very least I don't want her to remember me like this
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