Welcome to City-Data.com Forum!
U.S. CitiesCity-Data Forum Index
Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Relationships
 [Register]
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
View detailed profile (Advanced) or search
site with Google Custom Search

Search Forums  (Advanced)
Reply Start New Thread
 
Old 01-15-2008, 07:24 AM
 
2,856 posts, read 10,429,058 times
Reputation: 1691

Advertisements

What really goes on at bachelor parties with nude women strippers? Do married men tend to participate at these parties in your experiences?

Honest answers please.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message

 
Old 01-15-2008, 07:35 AM
 
165 posts, read 661,980 times
Reputation: 154
It varies according to the party. There are all types.

Some are "innocent" displays of stripping (with no body contact with the guests).

Some have body contact with the male guests, like rubbing their breasts in the faces of guys (a la bronsky) or maybe even some lap dancing.

Some have public displays of sex, like two women having sex with each other in the middle of the room.

Some, but in my opinion very few, involve sex with the guest of honor or other guests. I think 99%+ of all bachelor parties that involve strippers or "female entertainment" do not include sex with any guest.

Not sure what you mean by married men "participating"...
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 01-15-2008, 07:44 AM
 
Location: California
11,466 posts, read 19,345,447 times
Reputation: 12713
I've never been to one that had a stripper. I miss out on all the fun
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 01-15-2008, 07:52 AM
 
165 posts, read 661,980 times
Reputation: 154
I'd like to add that while it varies according to the party, the activities are typically specifically planned. Two women having sex in the middle of the room just doesn't "happen", it happens because the organizer of the event paid for that to happen. Same thing with the other activities, like strippers "paying attention" to the individual guests. If you know a guy who is going and if he is friends with the best man (the typical organizer), he knows exactly what he has in store for him at the party. Getting an honest answer from him is a different story.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 01-15-2008, 08:14 AM
 
2,856 posts, read 10,429,058 times
Reputation: 1691
my DH got an email invite that i saw about nude women and beer and a hotel room. And "not to tell your wives or SO's about the events"

I though that was somewhat rude and was just curious as I worry....the groom is very immature and the last of DH's friends to marry. I trust my DH and yet i still worry when alcohol and other friends (pressures) may be their.

Thanks for the honest answers
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 01-15-2008, 08:20 AM
 
165 posts, read 661,980 times
Reputation: 154
So you "discovered" the email as opposed to him sharing it with you? Might make it a little tricky to discuss. Sounds like this party may be a little more on the "wild" side. You either "trust" you husband or you don't. If you truly trust him, don't worry.

Now unrelated to the topic at hand, can he trust you not to read his email?
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 01-15-2008, 08:29 AM
 
2,856 posts, read 10,429,058 times
Reputation: 1691
He might know i did. He was reading it and i was standing behind him looking at it. It was a LONG email but my eyes go right to the "naked women" words. hahah So im not sure if he knows i saw that part or not
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 01-15-2008, 09:35 AM
 
Location: Weehawken, NJ
2,179 posts, read 6,715,362 times
Reputation: 1167
My old college buddies and I held a bachelor party for one of our friends, and there was no sex with the groom-to-be or the guests.

Personally, I don't find strippers sexy and would rather have my bachelor party at a sporting event followed by a few beers.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 01-15-2008, 09:41 AM
 
165 posts, read 661,980 times
Reputation: 154
Quote:
Originally Posted by HobokenGuy View Post

Personally, I don't find strippers sexy and would rather have my bachelor party at a sporting event followed by a few beers.
My bachelors party was at a sporting event followed by a few beers. Personally, I would rather have had strippers.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 01-15-2008, 09:43 AM
 
Location: Weehawken, NJ
2,179 posts, read 6,715,362 times
Reputation: 1167
Quote:
Originally Posted by Pragmaniac View Post
My bachelors party was at a sporting event followed by a few beers. Personally, I would rather have had strippers.
LOL well, disregard whatever I said.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.

Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.


Reply
Please update this thread with any new information or opinions. This open thread is still read by thousands of people, so we encourage all additional points of view.

Quick Reply
Message:


Over $104,000 in prizes was already given out to active posters on our forum and additional giveaways are planned!

Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Relationships
Similar Threads

All times are GMT -6. The time now is 05:52 PM.

© 2005-2024, Advameg, Inc. · Please obey Forum Rules · Terms of Use and Privacy Policy · Bug Bounty

City-Data.com - Contact Us - Archive 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35, 36, 37 - Top