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Old 04-02-2015, 07:44 PM
 
Location: PRC
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If you have been sleeping in her bed all this time, how about she sleeps in YOUR bed every night for a week or so? See if she will do that, if not then there is your answer, and she is stringing you along.

Non-relationships like this are OK if you both agree to be f-buddies but not exclusive. Exclusivity sounds like a relationship to me, however, you both need to be mature enough in order to acknowledge that you are IN a relationship. Commitment creeps up on many people and it needs to be handled slowly and carefully for them for many reasons, and dont forget that many people either dont know when they are in love or dont like to label themselves as being a couple..
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Old 06-16-2015, 02:27 AM
 
Location: The City of Brotherly Love
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I hate to resurrect this old thread, but I just wanted to say thank you to everyone who responded. I broke up with her. I don't know what the hell I was thinking when I wrote this as it screamed at me to break up with her. I'm now single and ready to mingle with all the new chicks that are set to come this fall semster! I just wanted to give an update and thanks where it is deserved!
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Old 06-16-2015, 05:48 AM
 
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all this...for kissing and cuddling
are you a male??

move on dude...wtf
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Old 06-16-2015, 06:00 AM
 
Location: Northern Wisconsin
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Just get out. She is using you and manipulating you for her own selfish purposes.
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Old 06-16-2015, 07:53 AM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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Old 06-16-2015, 10:32 AM
 
Location: The City of Brotherly Love
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all this...for kissing and cuddling
are you a male??

move on dude...wtf
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Just get out. She is using you and manipulating you for her own selfish purposes.
I was saying that I did get out of the relationship. I realized that she was abusive and manipulative. Plus, I found out that she cheated on me.

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Thank you so much! It feels great to be back on the market!
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