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There's a difference between "having standards" and "thinking you're better than."
However you want to phrase it, it's still the same fact: I can do better. Sorry, I don't want to personally offend him, but it's reality. I can do better. My friends and family who personally know me and the situation said the same thing.
Dare I ask, if you don't like to involve yourself with "easy lays", w. you would need to rent love for a moment?
See, it's the double-standard. It's the concept that you can bring a girl home, feel her up and do whatever else, then rear that ugly head of yours and call her a s*ut. Makes no sense to me.
Are you not also guilty of being an "easy lay", and therefore, a less quality person??????
I never said I practice that did I?? I said if I wanted to rent . this is called hypothesizing . I don't believe in being an easy lay but I don't deny there are those who turn me off because they fall in the lap without pursuing.
Double standards are when you want a virgin but yourself are easy lay. I am neither. And i dont ever want to date a girl who wants to jump in the back seat cuz i drive an expensive car.
However you want to phrase it, it's still the same fact: I can do better. Sorry, I don't want to personally offend him, but it's reality. I can do better. My friends and family who personally know me and the situation said the same thing.
That's great. You just need to get better at deciding that on the FRONT end so you don't look like you're just pissed because he dared to go cold on you after you decided this:
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Originally Posted by alaskandaisy
I'm just sad cause I could see myself wanting to hangout with this guy again.
So in the future, "doing better" means knowing not to go out with a guy who rates you by numbers, picks you up late at night, and takes you straight back to his place.
That's great. You just need to get better at deciding that on the FRONT end so you don't look like you're just pissed because he dared to go cold on you after you decided this:
So in the future, "doing better" means knowing not to go out with a guy who rates you by numbers, picks you up late at night, and takes you straight back to his place.
Honestly, I think he was just test-driving you.
Well yeah that's what a first encounter is about. I was more sad about it earlier in the week but now I'm totally over it. There's plenty of better fish in the sea lol. But I understand your point.
You grow out of it. At some point, the idea of pining over somebody who shows nothing but disinterest gets old, and you stop being drawn to people as soon as you detect dismissiveness.
What's funny about that though...and maybe it's different in a non-dating situation, but I have a few lifelong friends who always have that "dismissiveness" vibe about them. They're SO laid back, you'd think they just don't care or like you at all, yet they do things to prove they do.
And other mutual friends will say "yeah, he/she's just like that, that's XXXXX for you!"
So sometimes, it might just be a personality trait.
However you want to phrase it, it's still the same fact: I can do better. Sorry, I don't want to personally offend him, but it's reality. I can do better. My friends and family who personally know me and the situation said the same thing.
If you feel that you can do better, then it would greatly benefit you to walk the walk and to talk the talk.
Exactly. This dude is sleazy and I'm getting called a **** lol it's like, how is his behavior any better. DOUBLE STANDARDS.
Double standards are never going away. Just deal with it like all of us do and stop complaining. Whining and complaining will not get you a guy. Get along to go along and push on.
As a man I can't have an argument in public with my voice raised against my girlfriend (even if she is in the wrong) without people ready to assume I'm an abusive jerk and possibly ready to fight me to protect her.
You can publicly berate your boyfriend and even put your hands in his face and no one will do a thing but think "Wow. He must be a real jerk. Good for her for standing up for herself" even if he did nothing that bad.
Guess what, my world still spins just fine. Stop acting like you're the only one who faces double standards.
I'm from NY. Username comes from my obsession with Alaska haha
Hey if you want to move to Alaska someday, there's no shortage of hot guys up there.
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