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Welcome to the world of the still immature and trying to get laid every 15 minutes male.
You will meet a lot of these guys. Just be prepared for it mentally and try to notice red flags early on.
OP maybe he reads this forum and knows you gave it away to a random guy on your first date as someone pointed out earlier. That coupled with your consent to go with him to his house the first time you met just made him think you are an easy lay. When he didn't get it, he thought screw it, I ain't wasting time for someone who is easy but playing hard now.
OP maybe he reads this forum and knows you gave it away to a random guy on your first date as someone pointed out earlier. That coupled with your consent to go with him to his house the first time you met just made him think you are an easy lay. When he didn't get it, he thought screw it, I ain't wasting time for someone who is easy but playing hard now.
"I ain't wasting time for someone who is easy but playing hard now."
Agreeing to watch TV at his apartment does NOT make me easy. I did not have sex with him and did not let him see me naked or let him touch anything below my waist. That does not constitute as easy.
It wasn't the first date with the last guy, it was the third. And contrary to popular belief, that guy absolutely loved me regarless of how "easy" I was. He asked me to be his girlfriend like 3 weeks later and treated me wonderfully. Great guy, I just didn't have feelings for him. That's why I think everyone on this forum needs to take a step back and stop being so damn rude to everyone. You guys throw around the "easy " card and blame everything on that when in reality everyone is different and everything is circumstantial.
I can see if it was MY idea to go to his apartment and MY idea to throw myself at this individual, then yes I guess that's easy, but that wasn't the situation. This guy was clearly testing the water with me and didn't overstep my boundaries so I don't hold it against him and he should do the same for me.
You men are hilarious to judge women for being "easy" or a "tease" when you're the ones with malicious and sneaky intentions. This guy is no prince and if he thinks that I'm "easy" and not worth his time anymore, then that's great. He's missing out on a wonderful, smart, beautiful human being.
Stop calling me easy. If you have nothing constructive to say, save it.
"I ain't wasting time for someone who is easy but playing hard now."
Agreeing to watch TV at his apartment does NOT make me easy. I did not have sex with him and did not let him see me naked or let him touch anything below my waist. That does not constitute as easy.
It wasn't the first date with the last guy, it was the third. And contrary to popular belief, that guy absolutely loved me regarless of how "easy" I was. He asked me to be his girlfriend like 3 weeks later and treated me wonderfully. Great guy, I just didn't have feelings for him. That's why I think everyone on this forum needs to take a step back and stop being so damn rude to everyone. You guys throw around the "easy " card and blame everything on that when in reality everyone is different and everything is circumstantial.
I can see if it was MY idea to go to his apartment and MY idea to throw myself at this individual, then yes I guess that's easy, but that wasn't the situation. This guy was clearly testing the water with me and didn't overstep my boundaries so I don't hold it against him and he should do the same for me.
You men are hilarious to judge women for being "easy" or a "tease" when you're the ones with malicious and sneaky intentions. This guy is no prince and if he thinks that I'm "easy" and not worth his time anymore, then that's great. He's missing out on a wonderful, smart, beautiful human being.
Stop calling me easy. If you have nothing constructive to say, save it.
You're not easy. Your behavior just comes across as such to guys like the one you went out with.
I'm a woman. I like making out, but you have to be careful. You could've been date raped or something worse.
Nobody is going to look out for you...except you.
If this guy got the wrong idea about you, you need to make sure you're not sending the wrong messages.
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You're not easy. Your behavior just comes across as such to guys like the one you went out with.
I'm a woman. I like making out, but you have to be careful. You could've been date raped or something worse.
Nobody is going to look out for you...except you.
If this guy got the wrong idea about you, you need to make sure you're not sending the wrong messages.
Okay thank you, you didn't make me feel insulted. Now can I ask you some additional advice? I'm going back to school in RI today and this guy knows I'm leaving. We exchanged like 6 texts yesterday and he hasn't said anything to me today at all. I know it's easter and he has work, but even before we met we spoke every day. I know that it's not looking good, I don't think he's intrested any longer for whatever reason. I wrote up this message:
"Hey I'm heading back to RI today. Err I kind of get the sense you're not interested haha which is fine, but for what's it worth I think you're a cool dude and I wanted to get to know you more. I'm home in 3 weeks for summer and you have my # so if you wanna chill again let me know. If not good luck with school!!��
Is this weird? I just know he's not intrested, maybe I am jumping to conclusions too soon, but it appears he's doing the fade out lol. Usually if you hangout with someone for the first time you message them ya know?
My mom told me to wait until tomorrow. What is your advice?
Edit: we both grew up in the same town in NY but my college is 3 hrs north in RI.
Last edited by alaskandaisy; 04-05-2015 at 01:30 PM..
"I ain't wasting time for someone who is easy but playing hard now."
Agreeing to watch TV at his apartment does NOT make me easy. I did not have sex with him and did not let him see me naked or let him touch anything below my waist. That does not constitute as easy.
It wasn't the first date with the last guy, it was the third. And contrary to popular belief, that guy absolutely loved me regarless of how "easy" I was. He asked me to be his girlfriend like 3 weeks later and treated me wonderfully. Great guy, I just didn't have feelings for him. That's why I think everyone on this forum needs to take a step back and stop being so damn rude to everyone. You guys throw around the "easy " card and blame everything on that when in reality everyone is different and everything is circumstantial.
I can see if it was MY idea to go to his apartment and MY idea to throw myself at this individual, then yes I guess that's easy, but that wasn't the situation. This guy was clearly testing the water with me and didn't overstep my boundaries so I don't hold it against him and he should do the same for me.
You men are hilarious to judge women for being "easy" or a "tease" when you're the ones with malicious and sneaky intentions. This guy is no prince and if he thinks that I'm "easy" and not worth his time anymore, then that's great. He's missing out on a wonderful, smart, beautiful human being.
Stop calling me easy. If you have nothing constructive to say, save it.
OP, regardless of we "don't know you" in real life, this is the impression you project, the "idea" you gave to people. It wasn't your idea to go to his place, but you had a choice. So as your previous history in other posts. Your choice is to be who you are, so you can't blame people for taking you as what you are.
Which was why I advised you to stop posting here for advice because you choose to be oblivious.
Last edited by softcrunch; 04-05-2015 at 01:55 PM..
OP,s of we "don't know you" in real life, this is the impression you project, the "idea" you gave to people. It wasn't your idea to go to his place, but you had a choice. So as your previous history in other posts. Your choice is to be who you are, so you can't blame people for taking you as what you are.
Which was why I advised you to stop posting here for advice because you choose to be oblivious.
Great post. Can't give you any more rep.OP should pay attention to it especially the last line.
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