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It might be too late? I am 23, soon turning 24. Never dated (2 or 3 random dates that took a day), was too focused on work. Work took over my life in the last one and a half years, I am a workaholic. Anyways, i feel like women can tell that I am out of the game and they dont seem to show too much of an interest. I am NOT a virgin, and did go to bars or parties to get "it" occasionally, but never found anything that lasted longer than 3 days.
The thing is, I can kinda tell that girls can tell that I have NO experience, is it true? What do you guys think?
Try to date girls who don't care. You're making it a bigger deal than it really is. I have a feeling it's more of a YOU problem than anything else.
Personally if I knew a guy that had no experience...it wouldn't bother me (I'm in my early 20s as well.) We'd be one in the same. People have preferences...but as far as I experience is concerned. I don't care.
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It might be too late? I am 23, soon turning 24. Never dated (2 or 3 random dates that took a day), was too focused on work. Work took over my life in the last one and a half years, I am a workaholic. Anyways, i feel like women can tell that I am out of the game and they dont seem to show too much of an interest. I am NOT a virgin, and did go to bars or parties to get "it" occasionally, but never found anything that lasted longer than 3 days.
The thing is, I can kinda tell that girls can tell that I have NO experience, is it true? What do you guys think?
I'm 26 and never had a gf or had sex. It is a MAJOR red flag to most women I've encountered that scared them right off. The best thing you can do is embellish that you've had a relationship or two. Don't go over the top.
It might be too late? I am 23, soon turning 24. Never dated (2 or 3 random dates that took a day), was too focused on work. Work took over my life in the last one and a half years, I am a workaholic. Anyways, i feel like women can tell that I am out of the game and they dont seem to show too much of an interest. I am NOT a virgin, and did go to bars or parties to get "it" occasionally, but never found anything that lasted longer than 3 days.
The thing is, I can kinda tell that girls can tell that I have NO experience, is it true? What do you guys think?
Too late for what?
If you are happy working then what's the problem? Who said you have to have a girlfriend or be married?
Doesn't really matter. You are super young. I'm 33 and while I've done some dating, I've only had one relationship I'd consider relatively serious (to me at least :P) and it was fairly recent. For me, it's just that I seem to have trouble actually falling for someone. It also doesn't help that I'm not a huge fan of the dating game, so I don't put myself out there like I probably should.
In any case, I've never really had any issues with women as a result of this. Most women will be interested in how you come across, not your relationship history. History only seems to matter if it's especially notorious or sordid . Especially at 23, I don't think you have much to worry about.
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. Especially at 23, I don't think you have much to worry about.
