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Old 04-09-2015, 11:08 AM
 
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Originally Posted by TabulaRasa View Post
Anybody could make a case for obscene jokes, commentary on having sex in his office, and inappropriate touching/bodily contact, all mentioned in the OP, constituting sexual harassment.
Thank you for your comments but he really
Isn't harasaing me. It's mutual x
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Old 04-09-2015, 11:13 AM
 
Location: Huntsville, AL
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he wants to bang you.

any other questions?
I'm betting the feeling is mutual...
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Old 04-09-2015, 11:15 AM
 
Location: Woodinville
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This sounds like a bit much to me. Are we sure the OP is real?
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Old 04-09-2015, 11:16 AM
 
Location: Middle America
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Thank you for your comments but he really
Isn't harasaing me. It's mutual x
With all due respect, my point wasn't whether or not you, personally, are tolerating of and/or entering into inappropriate workplace behavior, but simply that the behavior is inappropriate, and anybody could report it as such.

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Old 04-09-2015, 11:17 AM
 
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Two words as a response:

Stop it.


Seriously..stop whatever is or whatever you perceive is going on.
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Old 04-09-2015, 11:27 AM
 
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Hey y'all
Don't sh!!!t where you eat. That is all.
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Old 04-09-2015, 12:44 PM
 
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This sounds like a bit much to me. Are we sure the OP is real?
A bit much? What do you mean? Of course im real lol this is a real post I mean today he has been talking about me to my co workers saying how great I am. Sometimes I think yeah I think he does like me and other times I think No he doesn't not if he's done or said a certain thing. I can't work it out im genuinely confused and I am starting to really like this guy!
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Old 04-09-2015, 12:47 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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A bit much? What do you mean? Of course im real lol this is a real post I mean today he has been talking about me to my co workers saying how great I am. Sometimes I think yeah I think he does like me and other times I think No he doesn't not if he's done or said a certain thing. I can't work it out im genuinely confused and I am starting to really like this guy!
It shouldn't matter to you whether he likes you or not. You should be focussed on your job, keeping things strictly professional. Whether he likes you is irrelevant. If he harasses you, or gives you performance reviews based on whether you play his game, that's a different matter.
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Old 04-09-2015, 12:49 PM
 
Location: New Yawk
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I'm guessing you're rather young, so here's a general rule of thumb for the workplace: never bang your boss. If you're into him, quit your job and then go in for the kill.
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Old 04-09-2015, 12:50 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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I'm not sure I flirt with him so obviously, it seems to be more when people aren't looking he will wink or make something I said naughty when others aren't around so hopefully others havent noticed as some women in our department are totally up his ass
That's so inappropriate! And if he's praising you to others in the office, it's obvious to them what's going on. This is a sure-fire way to destroy morale in the office. He has very poor personnel management skills.
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