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Well she slept with one and fooled around with another and now it seems like all these other guys want to hang out with her and get drunk. She goes out all time with coworkers and does get pretty drunk. She doesn't seem to think that these guys talk (they are married so I'm guessing not?) Or are they guys finding out and trying to get some? She is 41, divorced, very heavy, and not that attractive. (Bad teeth, and thin hair) but very outgoing. I worry she might loose her job but she is high up so hopefully that wouldn't be the case.
You have posted this same crap several times before - give it up already.
She is not the first person to be "sleeping around the workplace."
So what?
She is a grown woman and make her own decisions. If that is how she wants to conduct herself with her professional peers, so be it. If it leads to her losing her job, that is the risk she takes.
OP, nothing you can do about that, nor should you. I would stay out of it. In fact, on a professional level, if she develops a bad reputation from this, and ends up terminated, you probably do not want to be too close and risk association with any of the gossip. Stay far away and mind your own business.
remember back when people used to seek advice and say "my friend"
op, advise "your friend" to stop getting drunk and being what folks commonly refer to as a bum cucket or human receptacle
"your friend" needs to get some self respect
fyi, men sometimes will smash the honey boo boo mama type because its just there
just something to do to pass the time, no obligations, comittments, easy deniability, etc
This really isn't a friend. The OP is in a sexless marriage and made a thread contemplating leaving her husband, but meanwhile, he obsesses about her work friend having all the sex and men, but she only ever had her husband be interested in her, who isn't sleeping with her now.
Last edited by HappyRain; 04-15-2015 at 07:18 AM..
Well she slept with one and fooled around with another and now it seems like all these other guys want to hang out with her and get drunk. She goes out all time with coworkers and does get pretty drunk. She doesn't seem to think that these guys talk (they are married so I'm guessing not?) Or are they guys finding out and trying to get some? She is 41, divorced, very heavy, and not that attractive. (Bad teeth, and thin hair) but very outgoing. I worry she might loose her job but she is high up so hopefully that wouldn't be the case.
One can "lose" a job but it cannot be "loose", the person who has the job can be considered "loose" depending on their lifestyle.
So, why are you so concerned with the choices this woman is making for her life?
Does she help you pay the rent? Pay utilities? Buy groceries?
If not stay out of her personal business and tend to your job duties which is what you get paid a salary to do.
This really is a friend. The OP is in a sexless marriage and made a thread contemplating leaving her husband, but meanwhile, he obsesses about her work friend having all the sex and men, but she only ever had her husband be interested in her, who isn't sleeping with her now.
and this has what to do with the current thread topic?
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