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My Older girlfriend has been distance doesn't text at all calls sometimes when i call seems neva picks up and neva gets back to me.calls when it feels conviniet 4 her .she was neva like this
I gave her 2 ultimatums on different times to tell me if she's doesnt want to be with so I move on with my life both times she's tells me she loves and if she didn't want me she would have told me a long time ago it's just she's going through some hard stuff and sometimes wants to be alone she has a 4 year old daughter and having work and apperantly family issues
but it's been 2-3weeks now and to be honest I'm tired now i feel unwanted . there times you want to talk to her about things you goin through in your life but cannot times you wana hear you loved or being missed but you cannot.times you just wana hear from her but I'm not so important anymore
I need true advise on what all this might mean and what I can do.
I can understand that.
I have fear that all this not talking is going to drive us apart.
it kills me when she can be online on whatsapp but not say a word to me then you start to think am I being sacrificed on my own you have all these questions that start popping in I get confused I worry
I can understand that.
I have fear that all this not talking is going to drive us apart.
it kills me when she can be online on whatsapp but not say a word to me then you start to think am I being sacrificed on my own you have all these questions that start popping in I get confused I worry
You're welcome.
Just out of curiosity. How old are you? How old is she?
Perhaps her way of regrouping is connecting on whatsapp. Everyone regroups differently. Don't take it personally.
i know its just that i don't want to lose her and i feel this distance is going to do exactly that and also having never really having experienced this in my life so it gets hard to adjust and make sense of everything
It not all about what you want. Keep in mind that it really does not matter how badly you don't want to lose her. If she does not want to be in a relationship with you that's her prerogative.
Keep in mind relationships work well when both people want to be together.
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Originally Posted by kunaka1000
and i feel this distance is going to do exactly that.
Or you could drive her farther away by not letting her have the space she apparently is seeking. I know if I were seeking alone time, or time to deal with my life, the last thing I would want is someone trying to vie for my love, affection or time. Leave her be and see where it goes. Do you really think that invading a woman's space who has asked for time alone, is going to win you the girl?
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Originally Posted by kunaka1000
and also having never really having experienced this in my life so it gets hard to adjust and make sense of everything
This should tell you that you need your own time to develop emotional maturity/intelligence and do some deep introspection.
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