Am I reading too much into this? (dating, girlfriend, guys)

[bebe182]

So met a guy from an online dating site last night, I'd say the date went really well. He asked me where I want to go for date #2 and all, we kissed at the end of the night, all that good stuff. He told me to text him when I got home, I did and thanked him for the night and said I had a really nice time. He said he was glad I got home ok, and he had a nice time too with a wink.

Anyway this morning I went on the website and saw that he viewed my profile last night when he got home. Not quite sure what that means, if I should take it as a good sign or not (like maybe he's rethinking seeing me again).

Also after we kissed (by my car) he said to me, "I wanna see you again, I just have to check my schedule first" I thought he would seal in the second date right then there, or maybe I'm just reading too much into it? not sure.

[erjunkee]

OP, you went on one date. It sounds like you both had a good time. He said he needs to check his schedule.

I presume last night means 12-14 hours ago.That's all...one whole day hasn't even passed.


I'm still not sure what the issue is.

[bebe182]

Originally Posted by erjunkee

OP, you went on one date. It sounds like you both had a good time. He said he needs to check his schedule.

I presume last night means 12-14 hours ago.That's all...one whole day hasn't even passed.


I'm still not sure what the issue is.

I guess I'm just anxious, its the first date that I've had in a while that went really well.

[rego00123]

You're reading too much in to this.

Spefically: trying to fit his actions to your desires and creating a reality that may or may not exsist.

Chill out and enjoy your next date when you guys get around to making it

[Beezwacks]

Yeah, you are reading into this too much, settle down...

[erjunkee]

Originally Posted by bebe182

I guess I'm just anxious, its the first date that I've had in a while that went really well.

I understand.

Well I wish you all the best.

I'd say let him contact you to verify the next meeting date/time. Waiting can be nerve wracking but being patient will give you a clear understanding of what his intentions are.

Just as a disclaimer: i'm pretty conservative when it comes to relationship and so while this has always worked for me (I don't believe in pursuing men), I'm sure you'll get other opinions on here advising you to do otherwise.

Regardless, I still encourage you to wait to hear back from him.

[Ruth4Truth]

It's not clear what your question or concern is, OP. It sounds like everything went well, and he'll get back to you about the next date. So far, so good, right?

[elnina]

Originally Posted by rego00123

You're reading too much in to this.

Spefically: trying to fit his actions to your desires and creating a reality that may or may not exsist.

Chill out and enjoy your next date when you guys get around to making it

^^^ This!!!
Stop overanalizing every word, every move. Relax, or you will look like a needy, insecure person.
No one likes that.

[funymann]

Originally Posted by bebe182

I guess I'm just anxious, its the first date that I've had in a while that went really well.

I can understand your anxiousness but you have to cool it.

Stay low and wait for his call. It's obvious after your date that he checked up on you. He expressed his desires to date again.

Give the guy time to dump his girlfriend.

[JoeCollege]

It's a sign.