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the real question is, are u actually interested? If ur logging in multiple times a day, it seems like u arent really that interested in them and are looking for something else? If you really...really were interested in that person, the pope could email u and u'd probably not care or look.
I think u need to ask urself if u really are interested in the person u are dating?
It's only been two dates, and we're supposed to have a third date this weekend. I am very interested in him, I'm just being cautious since I haven't had great experiences with OLD, I guess its me just trying to protect myself, because I actually do really like him.
Besides, some of those log-ons have been to see when he last logged on :-/ (shouldn't do that, I know)
It's only been two dates, and we're supposed to have a third date this weekend. I am very interested in him, I'm just being cautious since I haven't had great experiences with OLD, I guess its me just trying to protect myself, because I actually do really like him.
thats good, i dont mean to put u on the hot seat. Technically both of u can do whatever u want until u both agree to an exclusive relationship. I've been "meh" about someone and keep dating them while still going online and checking messages and what not (didnt go on dates with anyone else or anything) but still seeing whats out there.
thats good, i dont mean to put u on the hot seat. Technically both of u can do whatever u want until u both agree to an exclusive relationship. I've been "meh" about someone and keep dating them while still going online and checking messages and what not (didnt go on dates with anyone else or anything) but still seeing whats out there.
That's ok, I can see how it may come across that I'm not that into him, but in reality I am. Thanks!
This is irritating to me, not so much because I care if someone is looking to see when the last time I logged on was (it's a dating site, that's what we're all there for), but because when I'm online, men see that I'm online and want to "chat" and sometimes get frustrated if I don't answer them right away. I'm not on OKC or tinder or whatever to chat, I'm just reading my messages and trying to answer some of them.
So I'll do one of two things, depending on my mood and how irritated I am: I'll "hide" my profile for a little while if i need to catch up on some messages and only go online super early in the morning or at some off-hour, not when the site has heavy traffic. Or I'll keep the app open on my iPad so it looks like I'm online ALL the time. I just explained to whoever I was talking to, hey, it looks like I'm there all the time because it's open all the time.
I went on a couple of dates with one guy and he mentioned how I was online all the time. I said, "I'm on there right now". He pulled out his phone, looked at the tinder app, and there I was...
Thanks lol yes that is what I meant. Couldn't spell and picked the
wrong option with spell check. Now I know how to spell it. lol
Guys trying to spell could be another thread!
Thanks lol yes that is what I meant. Couldn't spell and picked the
wrong option with spell check. Now I know how to spell it. lol
Guys trying to spell could be another thread!
Lol I thought that's what you meant. Although if we all logged in unanimously it would just make the whole thing a lot easier.
Maybe my approach is to open but... .JUST ASK HIM!
Use the old tried and true method of HONESTY....
"Are you still logging on to find someone else to date or are we only seeing each other?"
You may not get the answer you expect, but at least you'll know - and he'll know your direct and to the point question means you want to be upfront and honest... pure signs of a good started relationship....
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