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Hello all. This is what happened to me a few days ago: 2 months ago I met the girl of my dreams by Tinder. She likes the same music as me, we are atracted to the same academic area, she has a conception of the life and of the things that is admirable, and so many other things that really make this girl absolutely amazing and lovable. The thing is, when this "Friendship" started we take ourselves super good, we talked about every day, and we always had a topic of conversation, it was amazing and the best months of my life. Then we date, and we had an amazing time so I knew she was "the one"... I cant see her a lot because we have to study a lot and dont really have time for each other, but anyway, we keep talking via text all the time. A few days ago, and struggling by the fact that i cant see her, I decided to tell her I like her by text (Dont know if it was a bad idea). So I told her (In a long message) that I really thought she was amazing and that I was attracted to her. Then she replied saying that she thinks that I'm an amazing guy with so much talent, so much "mistery" and a lot of cute things, wich was amazing, but then she said "Sadly, we havent spent so much time together to become a Girlfriend-Boyfriend thing, but that she really cared about me and about our relation. It was weird, and I dont know what to think. She didnt "Friendzoned" me by saying "No, I just want to be friends". But she didnt say "Yes, I want to have something with you". So I'm really confused right now and I think I screwed up things by telling her how I felt. She said it wasnt a bad idea... but I dont really know. I need help guys, how do I take this? Thanks, greetings from Colombia
This is why using the telephone to convey important messages is best. If you'd had her on the phone, she would have responded, and then you could have asked her what she meant, or said, "yeah, I've been bummed about us being too busy to date more. What do you think we should do?", or whatever. The conversation would have evolved, and you would have been able to discuss the direction you want to go in.
Call her. Tell her you miss her, and you don't know what to make of her message.
I think she is right and she is being cautious not wanting to lead you so you don't count on a relationship when there is the possibility there will not be one when you both have time to see each other or are out of school or both.
Keep talking to her and see where things go naturally but do not set your expectations toward the romantic relationship you want just yet.
Hello all. This is what happened to me a few days ago: 2 months ago I met the girl of my dreams by Tinder. She likes the same music as me, we are atracted to the same academic area, she has a conception of the life and of the things that is admirable, and so many other things that really make this girl absolutely amazing and lovable. The thing is, when this "Friendship" started we take ourselves super good, we talked about every day, and we always had a topic of conversation, it was amazing and the best months of my life. Then we date, and we had an amazing time so I knew she was "the one"... I cant see her a lot because we have to study a lot and dont really have time for each other, but anyway, we keep talking via text all the time. A few days ago, and struggling by the fact that i cant see her, I decided to tell her I like her by text (Dont know if it was a bad idea). So I told her (In a long message) that I really thought she was amazing and that I was attracted to her. Then she replied saying that she thinks that I'm an amazing guy with so much talent, so much "mistery" and a lot of cute things, wich was amazing, but then she said "Sadly, we havent spent so much time together to become a Girlfriend-Boyfriend thing, but that she really cared about me and about our relation. It was weird, and I dont know what to think. She didnt "Friendzoned" me by saying "No, I just want to be friends". But she didnt say "Yes, I want to have something with you". So I'm really confused right now and I think I screwed up things by telling her how I felt. She said it wasnt a bad idea... but I dont really know. I need help guys, how do I take this? Thanks, greetings from Colombia
Yes I have, as I said, We had about 2 lovely dates already...
Still trying to find where in your post you say this ^^^:
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Originally Posted by Srjuanox
Hello all. This is what happened to me a few days ago: 2 months ago I met the girl of my dreams by Tinder. She likes the same music as me, we are atracted to the same academic area, she has a conception of the life and of the things that is admirable, and so many other things that really make this girl absolutely amazing and lovable. The thing is, when this "Friendship" started we take ourselves super good, we talked about every day, and we always had a topic of conversation, it was amazing and the best months of my life. Then we date, and we had an amazing time so I knew she was "the one"... I cant see her a lot because we have to study a lot and dont really have time for each other, but anyway, we keep talking via text all the time. A few days ago, and struggling by the fact that i cant see her, I decided to tell her I like her by text (Dont know if it was a bad idea). So I told her (In a long message) that I really thought she was amazing and that I was attracted to her. Then she replied saying that she thinks that I'm an amazing guy with so much talent, so much "mistery" and a lot of cute things, wich was amazing, but then she said "Sadly, we havent spent so much time together to become a Girlfriend-Boyfriend thing, but that she really cared about me and about our relation. It was weird, and I dont know what to think. She didnt "Friendzoned" me by saying "No, I just want to be friends". But she didnt say "Yes, I want to have something with you". So I'm really confused right now and I think I screwed up things by telling her how I felt. She said it wasnt a bad idea... but I dont really know. I need help guys, how do I take this? Thanks, greetings from Colombia
Anyway, I don't really think you did anything wrong. You like her, and you told her so.
I would work on trying to see her more in person. She may not feel the same way you do, and that is something you will have to accept.
Hello all. This is what happened to me a few days ago: 2 months ago I met the girl of my dreams by Tinder. She likes the same music as me, we are atracted to the same academic area, she has a conception of the life and of the things that is admirable, and so many other things that really make this girl absolutely amazing and lovable. The thing is, when this "Friendship" started we take ourselves super good, we talked about every day, and we always had a topic of conversation, it was amazing and the best months of my life. Then we date, and we had an amazing time so I knew she was "the one"... I cant see her a lot because we have to study a lot and dont really have time for each other, but anyway, we keep talking via text all the time. A few days ago, and struggling by the fact that i cant see her, I decided to tell her I like her by text (Dont know if it was a bad idea). So I told her (In a long message) that I really thought she was amazing and that I was attracted to her. Then she replied saying that she thinks that I'm an amazing guy with so much talent, so much "mistery" and a lot of cute things, wich was amazing, but then she said "Sadly, we havent spent so much time together to become a Girlfriend-Boyfriend thing, but that she really cared about me and about our relation. It was weird, and I dont know what to think. She didnt "Friendzoned" me by saying "No, I just want to be friends". But she didnt say "Yes, I want to have something with you". So I'm really confused right now and I think I screwed up things by telling her how I felt. She said it wasnt a bad idea... but I dont really know. I need help guys, how do I take this? Thanks, greetings from Colombia
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