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She's shown clear signs of interest, so now it's up to you to take some initiative, invite her out or make an actual plan to see her. If a woman's into you, she'll be receptive. But you can't just wait around on her to make a move, women aren't necessarily geared that way..sorry.
There is a woman who i have known for a few years. We went to high school together and ive always seen her around over the years.
It wasnt until recently that she started to show an interest in me, we exchanged numbers one night at a party. She hit me up the very next day to come over and play guitar.
It quickly turned into something romantic. We hung out the next day too and enjoyed each others company.
We have hung out since then, but the past week or so since we have been chillen, it seems like shes never available now...or like...shes so spacey and all over the place that its impossible to keep in touch sometimes
It seems like she likes me still...but she never communicates with me properly. She asked if i was going over to a mutual friends house one night cuz she wanted to see me. so i asked her if they were cool with having more people over. No response
then she text me late in the night apologizing and how she lost track of time. And im thinking...if the shoe were on the other foot i would have made sure to send her a text and have her come over.
Its like...how can someone show interest, but not actually communicate with me properly?
I guess it is what it is...but it festers with me really easily for some reason...and it sucks.
I suspect that you are her "better than nothing sex partner" Don't settle for that.....because it will never get better and it could get even worse.
Like so many counselors say....You have to teach people how to treat you. Being ready to drop everything to see her even after she flakes on you is showing her you are desperate and she can treat you like a "booty call" Unless you are ok with this....change it.
Personally, I would suggest that you simply do not respond to her texts for awhile...barring that....I'd give her one more chance to get it right by making plans to go do something with her.....If she flakes again...write her off. You deserve better.
Here's an idea: How about you show interest in her by actually asking her out on a real date? Relationships are not built on "hanging out" and "chillin'." She put the ball firmly in your court and now you're standing there dribbling as the shot clock winds down.
Oh, you already hit it and now she's blowing off your invites? Learn to eat p*$$￥. Better luck with the next one!
Oh no you D-idn't!!! Lol!!!
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