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Her apartment coincidentally gets robbed and she sends the cops to his place?
Him getting shot once he opens the door with the key?
What is wrong with you people?
Y'all gonna end up lonely and alone and old if you see too many red flags on every action somebody does.
"she blinked, does she mean something by it?" Seriously, dudes, get a grip
It's not a matter of safety for me.
It's a matter of someone opening themselves fully to someone they have barley gotten to know.
Casual sex is one thing, but opening your door to someone you have know for 4-5 weeks and telling them they have free reign to do as they please is not good judgment.
It up to the OP to decide if someone who makes those types of judgment calls are a good or bad thing, but seeing how he made a thread to ask what it all means as well as citing "unusual" questioning from her, I would imagine ithe whole situation is already making him uneasy about her as a person.
It's not a matter of safety for me.
It's a matter of someone opening themselves fully to someone they have barley gotten to know.
It up to the OP to decide if that is a good or bad thing, but seeing how he made a thread to ask what it all means as well as citing "unusual" questioning from her, I would imagine ithe whole situation is already making him uneasy about her as a person.
Then he shouldn't have taken the key!
Maybe she thinks he is a super trustworthy person because he seems very sincere. Maybe he visits her late at night or leaves early mornings and she doesn't always want to get up to let him in/out.
My bf gave me a key after a few weeks also and I didn't take it. I waited 3 months and was standing in front of locked doors several times, getting a raised eyebrow because I still didn't want to take the key.
But I would never make a huge issue out of a freakin key. Take it or don't take it but if this is already overwhelming you, how are you going to master real issues in life?
have known her for a month. shes made it clear shes not wanting a relationship. we just hang out have sex and ill stay over/ ive stayed over multiple times and i stayed all last weekend. sunday she gave me a key and said i could come over anytime
she also asked if i thought she was a **** and said shes not sleeping with anyone else
im confused by all this especially the key since we arent dating
what do you think of this?
You sort of have a relationship if you stay there all weekend. It isn't just sex. You spend quality time together and enjoy each others company with or without sex.
And if you stay there all weekend, you probably go in and out of ther place and she is tired of always letting you in and out.
Maybe she thinks he is a super trustworthy person because he seems very sincere. Maybe he visits her late at night or leaves early mornings and she doesn't always want to get up to let him in/out.
My bf gave me a key after a few weeks also and I didn't take it. I waited 3 months and was standing in front of locked doors several times, getting a raised eyebrow because I still didn't want to take the key.
But I would never make a huge issue out of a freakin key. Take it or don't take it but if this is already overwhelming you, how are you going to master real issues in life?
I agree, which is why my first post started with "why on earth would you have taken the key in the first place"
Only the OP knows the answer. It was probably all in hindsight when he started to question the actions. Emotions and the moment probably swallowed any clear thinking at the time.
Maybe she thinks he is a super trustworthy person because he seems very sincere. Maybe he visits her late at night or leaves early mornings and she doesn't always want to get up to let him in/out.
My bf gave me a key after a few weeks also and I didn't take it. I waited 3 months and was standing in front of locked doors several times, getting a raised eyebrow because I still didn't want to take the key.
But I would never make a huge issue out of a freakin key. Take it or don't take it but if this is already overwhelming you, how are you going to master real issues in life?
Yet you are harping on someone else about taking a key or not?
Some people need to think logically with their brain not emotionally with their bodies.
It is not safe to take a key from someone you barely know and only have sex with most of the time.
I have never given out a key or taken a key from someone who I was not in a relationship with and that relationship was Married to them. Otherwise no keys to anyone, no reason for them to be there when I am not, no reason to not get up and let them in when I know they are going to be there.
Yet you are harping on someone else about taking a key or not?
Some people need to think logically with their brain not emotionally with their bodies.
It is not safe to take a key from someone you barely know and only have sex with most of the time.
I have never given out a key or taken a key from someone who I was not in a relationship with and that relationship was Married to them. Otherwise no keys to anyone, no reason for them to be there when I am not, no reason to not get up and let them in when I know they are going to be there.
Huh???
I didn't take the key and we WERE in a relationship, saw each other every day from the day we met. And I didn't make a HUGE issue or a thread out of it. I just didn't take the key and I didn't question him or think he is a bad person because he offers me the key.
have known her for a month. shes made it clear shes not wanting a relationship. we just hang out have sex and ill stay over/ ive stayed over multiple times and i stayed all last weekend. sunday she gave me a key and said i could come over anytime
she also asked if i thought she was a **** and said shes not sleeping with anyone else
im confused by all this especially the key since we arent dating
what do you think of this?
That she is fairly lax about personal safety.
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