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I know when we are friends on Facebook he does watch and read my wall he told me that himself and yes I think that sometimes he maybe does get jealous. At times he would do certain things to try and get my attention. Whenever I started to wander off engaging with some other guy. I don't get why everyone is ignoring the fact that I have said several times I was the one who started all of this. Had I never mentioned sex to him he never would have said anything about only wanting me for sex.
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Originally Posted by kat949
Hmm.. so you played with his jealousy and now it backfired.. and you're hoping to rebuild his trust again.
Still too convenient for him, and you guys aren't exclusive after 8 months of back and forth.
You can hang in there. Anything is possible. You're feeling as though he's scared and intimidated bc of the male attention you get. Lay low for now. You can't make someone feel something. He can't be that fickle, after 8 months.
You need to be real with him, OP. Sounds like you were playing games and now it's backfiring.
On top of that, doesn't sound like he was ever serious to begin with.
People get jealous, but doesn't mean that jealousy is an indication they truly like you. They like the attention, and now it's not on them. Has nothing to do with you, personally. I think he's already made that distinction clear in his mind.
True it may have just been because I wasn't giving him my attention. For example I noticed that at times when I would be talking to other men about certain things. He would make a post about something related to what he saw me talking about with the other men. This has been going on for months now and there were even times where he would create fake profiles and talk to me on them. I knew it was him but I just played along.
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Originally Posted by kat949
You need to be real with him, OP. Sounds like you were playing games and now it's backfiring.
On top of that, doesn't sound like he was ever serious to begin with.
People get jealous, but doesn't mean that jealousy is an indication they truly like you. They like the attention, and now it's not on them. Has nothing to do with you, personally. I think he's already made that distinction clear in his mind.
You seem to think that you're going to get a do-over on the whole "engaging him sexually online" thing, and he'll see, once he "really gets to know you," that you're really not "like that" and he'll start looking at you as something besides a sexual object.
Not going to happen. That bell can't be unrung.
^^^^^ I agree with this.
OP:
No-one can turn back time... especially when they want to go back in time and change their behavior so a guy will not think of them as "that way".
He got an impression of you based on your on-line behavior when he looked at your Facebook page. What he saw was a female who sexually engages guys on-line and flirts with them. That is what he saw.
He cannot look at you as something besides a sexual object because that is that is all he saw on your Facebook page.
And yes things have backfired on me big time I believe he knew exactly what I was doing the entire time. I mean of course there is nothing wrong with me talking to other men. Yet a person can tell when you are trying to get under their skin right?
I would just like to explain everything to him I'd also like to apologize for playing games with him.
Do that in an email then delete all of his contact information and block him and leave the man alone.
Haven't you done enough to lead him on?
Why are you having such a difficult understanding his words to you?
"I don't like talking to you and I only want to have sex with you" is very very clear that he wants nothing more from you.
It would be more productive for you to find a new person, place or thing to form an obsession about.
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